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Queen’s attitude to being in a wheelchair, supposedly.

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Honeysuckleberries Tue 22-Mar-22 15:57:24

I have been reading about the Queen’s apparent negative attitude to being seen in public in a wheelchair. Her reaction apparently been ascribed to the shock caused to the public by Princess Margaret appearing in a wheelchair. I remember her appearing but I wasn’t shocked at the wheelchair bit, it was the sling, the sunglasses and the general air of malaise.
I would have thought that the sight of a sparkling Queen dressed smartly and with her beaming smile in a wheelchair would have done a great deal for the disabled.
I realise that she has an image to maintain but she is very elderly now and surely it is not a bad thing to have to adapt to her health issues.
If she is going to cling on to the bitter end then she either adapts or hands over to Prince Charles who is already elderly.

Nannashirlz Wed 23-Mar-22 18:11:04

It would have been nice for her to show that ppl with disabilities have her support and that it’s nothing to be ashamed of. As a disabled person life is hard either for us without our queen making us feel we are different and not the same.

Bridgeit Wed 23-Mar-22 18:15:52

Do you not notice that the RF , have involvement with many charities , that is part of what they do.

Bridgeit Wed 23-Mar-22 18:21:09

They cannot be accused of not understanding .they certainly cannot be accused of believing that a persons , ailments or disability are shameful, I am sorry that you believe that.

volver Wed 23-Mar-22 18:22:01

Bridgeit

With respect , you probably aren’t nearly 100 years old ?

No. I'm not pretending I can still do a job that's clearly too much for me, either. smile

Bridgeit Wed 23-Mar-22 18:25:12

The Royal family have them selves had various health conditions & disabilities .

Bridgeit Wed 23-Mar-22 18:28:45

By the way, I don’t really like the term ‘Royal Family’
I think ‘the Monarchy ‘ sounds a bit more user friendly.

Anniebach Wed 23-Mar-22 18:30:38

I use a wheelchair indoors and out, no way am I ashamed,

Harris27 Wed 23-Mar-22 18:42:58

I love the queen and all she stands for but I do feel it’s time to hand over her royal duties to Charles. He will do a good job and is mobile and has a job to do in the waiting.

varian Wed 23-Mar-22 18:50:58

What is wrong with a wheelchair? Especially for someone who is still working in her late nineties?

Maria59 Wed 23-Mar-22 18:53:00

My 8 Yr old grandson now uses a wheelchair following a stroke. He has accepted this with very good grace. Perhaps HM could learn from him and be grateful for all she has enjoyed.

Grandma70s Wed 23-Mar-22 18:57:32

Bridgeit

By the way, I don’t really like the term ‘Royal Family’
I think ‘the Monarchy ‘ sounds a bit more user friendly.

They aren’t the same, though, are they? The monarchy is an abstract concept, the royal family are….well, a family.

Bridgeit Wed 23-Mar-22 18:58:52

Not really an abstract concept, a reality as much as our own families & their histories etc

Bridgeit Wed 23-Mar-22 19:00:54

Grandma 70s , what do you ,would you do with your historic lineage to the point you yourself are now at?

tictacnana Wed 23-Mar-22 19:52:45

I have been disabled since I was a small child and I dread the thought of using the paraphernalia of disability... wheelchairs, walkers etc. My first walking sticks were tiny and even then I hated using them . I felt like an object of pity. I’m not a royalist but I understand how she might feel and , after all, it’s up to her.

Shazmo24 Wed 23-Mar-22 20:00:45

Probably pride is getting in the way when she would benefit from being in a wheelchair

ReadyMeals Wed 23-Mar-22 20:02:26

Bridgeit

Not really an abstract concept, a reality as much as our own families & their histories etc

No, the monarchy is part of a political system, the royal family are actual people.

hollysteers Wed 23-Mar-22 20:15:01

As long as the Queen is of sound mind, she will never abdicate.

maddyone Wed 23-Mar-22 20:51:03

hollysteers

As long as the Queen is of sound mind, she will never abdicate.

No, but I think she should retire.

Bridgeit Wed 23-Mar-22 21:10:12

It doesn’t work like that.

volver Wed 23-Mar-22 21:11:29

Bridgeit

It doesn’t work like that.

But it could....

Bridgeit Wed 23-Mar-22 21:13:25

They get around it by other family members covering more engagements.
The constitution would have to be changed through Parliament, etc

Mollygo Wed 23-Mar-22 21:19:56

It’s not my business whether she takes to a wheelchair or not. I hope my family and friends don’t decide it’s their business to tell me when they think I should be in a wheelchair.
I spent my early childhood in plaster casts and leg callipers. I don’t know that seeing other people I didn’t know wearing them would have made me feel better.

volver Wed 23-Mar-22 21:22:15

Bridgeit

They get around it by other family members covering more engagements.
The constitution would have to be changed through Parliament, etc

And...?

Bridgeit Wed 23-Mar-22 21:43:31

And what?

Bridgeit Wed 23-Mar-22 21:49:03

?….?