Kate1949
The baby I mentioned above, killed by his adoptive mother must have gone through some rigorous checks. He was a beautiful child and just a year old.
It is reported that she said 'No one told her that babies were so demanding'. She said she hated him.
How did she get through the process? How?
I did wonder that myself Kate. As the parent of an adoptive parent, and knowing what they had to go through in order to be accepted as potential adopters, I do wonder about this person. It seems to me that she was able to say all the right things, but clearly had absolutely no idea of what caring for a baby entails. And even as a baby, he would have had upheaval in his short life, which probably made him more clingy and unsettled. A would be adoptive parent will have had training about this possibility but she was obviously extremely unprepared for the reality.