It can get a bit lonely when you're not a chatterer but on the other hand i've noticed over the years that a lot of people are fake or boring. My 'switch' goes off very easily these days, I can't tolerate bullsh*t, fakery, pretence, nosyness - I would rather chat to a stranger for 10 minutes than have a conversation with most other people I know. Both our neighbours are two-faced, we've heard them talking about us negatively, having a right old bitch about us - so they get to know nothing anymore - not that we lead interesting lives or anything, or have lots of cash - they just talk about what we've got even down to what they've seen being delivered to us - fascinating not!
My sister talks about everyone she comes across, plus her grown up kids & their inlaws & her ex husband & all his family - does my absolute nut in. I've stopped telling her anything I don't want the world to know cos she seems to go from one person to the next & passes everything on, if that's conversation & being sociable then I'm the complete opposite. I'd rather be 'doing' than 'saying'.