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Synonyms for ‘Fat’ that aren’t Cringeworthy…?

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FannyCornforth Thu 12-May-22 09:55:39

Hello! smile
I am fat.

But I do not like saying ‘I am fat’.

But neither do I like ‘curvaceous’ (probably the best of a bad bunch); ‘cuddly’ (bleugh); ‘curvalicious’ (give me strength); or the word de joure ‘thick’ (confused)

Can you think of any acceptable, non-cringe words for not being slender? Because I can’t

Thank you!

toscalily Thu 12-May-22 12:00:51

With a well proportioned upper storey!

Daddima Thu 12-May-22 12:02:51

I am fat.

My mother used to tell of getting a new fitted coat ( she described it as * politically VERY incorrect * brown) when she was about 15, and her mum’s pal said to granny, ‘ My, Sarah, she’s a braw, braw lassie’ My mother’s joy was shortlived when she followed it up with, ‘ She’s just hingin’ in fat’.

SachaMac Thu 12-May-22 12:10:33

Pudgy is quite nice or what about amply covered.

AGAA4 Thu 12-May-22 12:18:26

My mum was always overweight. My dad referred to her as bonny. Much nicer than fat.

FannyCornforth Thu 12-May-22 12:19:41

Well upholstered…
I do feel like a rather comfortable small sofa, actually .
In a flock fabric.
One with antimacassars, fringing, and little gold feet

Germanshepherdsmum Thu 12-May-22 12:22:18

Wasn’t Mma Ramotswe in the No 1 Ladies’ Detective Agency ‘traditionally built’? I remember that in one of the books (you can see how highbrow some of my reading is) a gentleman complimented her by saying how fat she was looking. Perhaps moving to Botswana is easier than dieting. I’ll think about it.

Nannagarra Thu 12-May-22 12:25:12

Thinking of old-fashioned terms, do you remember ‘buxom’ (having a full figure and large breasts) or even worse ‘dumpy’ (short and stout)?
A friend of mine liked her husband to refer to her as ‘voluptuous’ as it suggested she was curvaceous and sexually attractive.

Marydoll Thu 12-May-22 12:27:41

Grandmabatty

I think that society is conditioned to think skinny/slim is the best way to look. It isn't helped by cadaverous models and actresses. Therefore the words associated with being rounder usually have negative connotations. I know about health benefits in being slim etc but that doesn't help women who aren't slim and who don't have a positive self image.

I totally agree, GB.

I used to be a size ten and now due to my comorbidities, medications and mobility, I am FAT.
However, even at a size ten, I had a generous bust and my doctor friend told me years later, that at university, I was described as the 8th engineering wonder of the world. My friends could never work out, why I didn't fall over! grin

Skydancer Thu 12-May-22 12:28:55

I was once described as well rounded.

MissAdventure Thu 12-May-22 12:29:06

I loved the number 1 ladies detective agency, and the traditionally built woman. smile

JenniferEccles Thu 12-May-22 12:29:47

How about well upholstered?!!

Blondiescot Thu 12-May-22 12:30:27

I used to have a Garfield t-shirt which said 'I'm not overweight, I'm under tall' which pretty much sums me up!

sodapop Thu 12-May-22 12:33:39

So far for me the winners are - plump and voluptuous. They conjure up good images for me.

GagaJo Thu 12-May-22 12:36:35

I'm just fat. It's just an adjective.

Marydoll Thu 12-May-22 12:36:55

Voluptuous for me. Plump makes me think of elasticated, polyester, floral skirts, worn to accomodate the plumpness. wink.

Mapleleaf Thu 12-May-22 12:37:06

I dislike the word “skinny” as well.
It’s a minefield though, when aiming to be careful how we phrase something in order to avoid offending - and this covers many other things as well as weight.
The fact remains there are people who are underweight, slim or overweight, but it’s how we say it without causing offence which is so hard.

MissAdventure Thu 12-May-22 12:38:23

A colleague, originally from Zimbabwe told me "Oh, how lovely to see you again, and look how big and fat you've got!"

Mollygo Thu 12-May-22 12:39:44

Voluptuous-entitled to wear whatever makes you feel good.
Traditionally built-I like that.

Blondiescot Thu 12-May-22 12:40:41

I was once described as the 'wee stout lassie'...

Nannagarra Thu 12-May-22 12:42:53

I agree with voluptuous but not plump sodapop.
Another word I haven’t heard for quite some time is ‘ample’.
I wonder if women pay more attention to those who have figures like Twiggy and men to those Rubens painted, or should I keep this one to myself?
?

Blossoming Thu 12-May-22 12:45:02

Embonpoint doesn’t purely refer to the bosom, though it’s usually used for that nowadays. It originally meant plump and attractive, I think it still should smile

Jane43 Thu 12-May-22 12:45:31

henetha

We don't hear much of the word 'plump' these days, do we.

Plump was the word my friend used to use.

Jane43 Thu 12-May-22 12:47:21

Bonny was a word people used when I was growing up and my friend’s mother used to say somebody ‘looked well’ if they had put on weight.

FannyCornforth Thu 12-May-22 12:49:23

I don’t particularly like Rubenesque as the women he painted looked very flabby, and a strange colour (a bit grey).
Degasesque is better. He painted nicely rounded, voluptuous women
Ditto Renoir.

Chrissyoh Thu 12-May-22 14:03:11

Big boned ? ?