Grandmabatty
I think that society is conditioned to think skinny/slim is the best way to look. It isn't helped by cadaverous models and actresses. Therefore the words associated with being rounder usually have negative connotations. I know about health benefits in being slim etc but that doesn't help women who aren't slim and who don't have a positive self image.
I totally agree, GB.
I used to be a size ten and now due to my comorbidities, medications and mobility, I am FAT.
However, even at a size ten, I had a generous bust and my doctor friend told me years later, that at university, I was described as the 8th engineering wonder of the world. My friends could never work out, why I didn't fall over! 