I've watched all the shows and read all of Amanda's books. I would say that no attempt is ever made to 'make everything seem perfect' or to parade every aspect of the childrens' lives.
Theirs is a gentle tale of a decent and hard-working family going about all the ups and downs of farming life. Animals die, the weather is unpredictable, nature makes the children wonder, equipment is stolen, ponies ridden and fed, school buses come and go. There are successes and failures, happy chatter over a home made dinner, hand me down school uniforms and peaceful Christmases. To those who haven't watched and are comparing it with other shows like the Kardashians then I would say do watch. It's kind, upbeat and positive.
It's interesting to note that in their own books Julia Bradbury and Ben Fogle mention the family, who are personal friends of theirs, and say only positive things and that their life on screen is representative of their real life.