SueEH
henetha
Yes definitely. I was adopted and never lived up to expectations. I think I was a huge disappointment.
Me also Henetha.
The sun shone out of my brother’s backside (their natural son) and I always felt inadequate. But 40 years on my brother treated them very badly and my mother died after not having seen him for over ten years. The one thing I did better than him was to give them grandchildren. However I feel very bitter as there should have been be someone else helping me to look after our parents. I’m now trying to manage my 93 year old dad who lives 100 miles away and it’s no fun at all.
Gosh, I can't believe that so many of you had parents who were you thought were disappointed in you and you in them. I know my perspective of looking at things, of growing up differs from my sisters. I wasn't the golden child, if there was a favourite I don't know who. I dug my heels in and got my way by not going yo the school they chose,they were right by the way, yes they were disappointed in my stance, but they treated me no differently, no I told you so. I always let the small things go. I can only think that people that are disappointed in their children, either did not want them or there is a character clash, like a child bring extra needy and over sensitive about everything with lots of dramas. No one coukd stand test year in and year out without getting deforested. Some can start a fight in an empty room, that goes for mothers and daughters, the high maintenance daughter then becomes that disappointed mother, same with sons. Childhood for lots seems to be a miserable place. Better not to have a child than an unwanted one.