GrammyGrammy
Witzend
I know of two women in their 90s who hadn’t been at all ill, who just died in their sleep, so I dare say those were cases of ‘old age’.
A brilliant way to go, IMO, albeit a nasty shock for the relatives who wondered why they weren’t answering the phone/door, and found them.
Pittcity, my mother died at 97, with advanced dementia. IIRC the death certificate said Alz./old age.
I think 'a nasty shock' for relatives who leave parents living alone in their nineties is well deserved wages of their neglect. And the smell of their decomposition will hopefully be stronger in their nostrils forevermore for every single day they left them living so vulnerably alone. People die of neglect. No one old and vulnerable who has family should live entirely alone. Cue the self-righteous selfish abandoners...
FGS, these were both women who had chosen to live independently, who lived very close to daughters who phoned or looked in every day, and helped whenever needed. Both had been seen or spoken to, and had been quite well, the day before.
There was no neglect! So please don’t make unfounded assumptions.
I might add that plenty of older people have no wish to move in with family, however well they may get on with them. Independence is often fiercely prized in older age.