So sorry to hear about your colleague @LRavenscroft. I suspect this person was always internally like that, but able to keep up a front when young- that slipped as an older person. beentheregotout.com/what-happens-to-narcissists-as-they-grow-old/
It's sad isn't it. We have to feel sorry for them and accept that they can't change. As my therapist would say "You can't change other people, but you can only change how you deal with them".
Other people tend to judge on their own standards, but we need to remember that not everyone has the same standards. We can be kind and good and taken advantage of and cruelly abused- and those elderly narcs can still continue their campaign of hate, recruiting people to abuse us and pile undeserved hatred on us further, as they always have done.
Sad. I have had much therapy. I know it was never ever about me.
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I am procrastinating and need to stop!
