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Lathyrus Sat 12-Nov-22 11:19:54

Me and my partner are going round to family tonight for a pizza and to play games with the quite young kids. You know, round the table, in the evening, pack of cards or whatever is the game of the moment.

I sent him to the shop and said ā€œGet a tub of Celebrations or something like that to have on the table to dip into.ā€

He’s come back with a small packet of assorted baklava.

See the similarity?

Nor do IšŸ¤”šŸ™„šŸ˜¬

GrannyGravy13 Sat 12-Nov-22 11:26:27

Oh dear 🤣🤣

Glorianny Sat 12-Nov-22 11:33:01

Let me guess.... HE likes baklava!?

Lathyrus Sat 12-Nov-22 11:33:40

Glorianny

Let me guess.... HE likes baklava!?

Got it in one!😬

OxfordGran Sat 12-Nov-22 11:45:01

this is called learned helplessness a ploy as old as Methusaleh, so that you will not ask him again, but rollyour eyes and do it yourself.
A get out clause of ā€˜something like that’ translated to ā€œbaklava!’
giving him an opportunity to express his own preference. Did he buy only one pack?
You tube vid Jeanne Robertson, entitled. ā€œDon’t send a man to the grocery storeā€ - this is how it is perceived - that you are ā€˜sending them’ be this conscious or otherwise.
What he is possibly conveying is his lack of interest in the planned evening.

Smileless2012 Sat 12-Nov-22 11:47:15

I love baklava but see your point Lathyrus and would be sending him back out again to the shops.

Lathyrus Sat 12-Nov-22 11:50:58

Well it’s not his thing, I know. Not even hisfamily. 😬

Never mind. We’ll stop off a Lidl on the way.

The baklava can be his reward for endless games of SnapšŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚

MawtheMerrier Sat 12-Nov-22 11:51:31

At least you and I are on the same wavelength - I am visiting D, SIL and the children today with the intention of watching Strictly together this evening and I have just popped to the village shop hoping for Lindor or similar -and came away with a box of ā€œHeroesā€smile

Witzend Sat 12-Nov-22 11:55:22

Sympathies, Lathyrus!

My dh once bought pork mince instead of beef. (ā€˜I thought it was beef,’ he said, all injured.

And another time, a pork joint instead of gammon. Similar response when I asked if he was actually able to read labels.

And years ago now, he came back from a huge Asda saying they had no loo cleaner. No, none at all! Yes, of course he did look properly!

It’s not ā€˜learned helplessness’ - he actually likes shopping, (especially if it means raiding M&S) but I’m happy to say that a man with several letters after his name has now actually learned to read labels - properly! - and to ask staff when he can’t find something.

Grantanow Sat 12-Nov-22 12:29:43

I like baklava and I don't get enough of it!

Georgesgran Sat 12-Nov-22 19:26:42

In the ā€˜70s I asked DH to buy a couple of parsnips. He came back with 2 ā€˜things’ called mouli - giant white vegetables, each over a foot long that cost the entire week’s vegetable budget!
I very rarely ever asked him to shop for anything again, but once bed-bound, I asked if he’d get me a vegetarian ready meal and he came back with a pack of mashed potato. Lesson learned!

crazyH Sat 12-Nov-22 19:34:55

Open invitation to all those who like Bacalava - a box is begging for attention. I was given it today - I just don’t like it😫

nadateturbe Sat 12-Nov-22 19:37:50

Men can be so annoying!

Fleurpepper Sat 12-Nov-22 19:39:52

Oooops

Visgir1 Sat 12-Nov-22 20:25:47

My sister sent out her DH on Christmas eve, to some crackers as she forgot them.
He came back with a packet of Jacobs.
(Not much of a Bang or party hat in that box )

HettyBetty Sat 12-Nov-22 20:56:18

I tell mine "no substitutions" like a Sainsburys order.

My friend's DH was sent to the village for milk for the children's cereal. He came back with orange juice...

nadateturbe Sat 12-Nov-22 21:43:39

My husband was asked to get milk and yogurt yesterday. I came home to no shopping done, but great progress with the jigsaw!

mumofmadboys Sat 12-Nov-22 21:49:46

I once made my DH a list for the old fashioned greengrocer shop. It said amongst other things 3 pears but was interpreted as 3 lbs of fresh peas!

Doodledog Sat 12-Nov-22 21:50:50

Visgir1

My sister sent out her DH on Christmas eve, to some crackers as she forgot them.
He came back with a packet of Jacobs.
(Not much of a Bang or party hat in that box )

grin.

At least that's a reasonable mistake, I suppose.

MawtheMerrier Sat 12-Nov-22 22:52:12

nadateturbe

Men can be so annoying!

Don’t knock them while you still have them.

nadateturbe Sat 12-Nov-22 22:58:14

MawtheMerrier

nadateturbe

Men can be so annoying!

Don’t knock them while you still have them.

I get what you're saying, but it's not always easy!

Lathyrus Sat 12-Nov-22 23:03:08

MawtheMerrier

nadateturbe

Men can be so annoying!

Don’t knock them while you still have them.

I have to eat humble pie.😬

The baklava was a great success. More than the chocolate😳

Lathyrus Sat 12-Nov-22 23:03:37

Don’t know why that came up with the quote????????

MawtheMerrier Sat 12-Nov-22 23:08:50

nadateturbe

MawtheMerrier

nadateturbe

Men can be so annoying!

Don’t knock them while you still have them.

I get what you're saying, but it's not always easy!

Recollections may vary!

Lathyrus Sat 12-Nov-22 23:15:47

He’s covered himself in glory tonight.

Not just the baklava success.

Played Call of Duty with the oldest. Bananagrams with the middle one and Snap with the youngest.

Nursed the cat and charmed the dog.

Altogether much more popular than me😬

That’ll teach me🤣