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schnackie Wed 30-Nov-22 13:42:08

I am fairly unemotional, most of the time. When the lovely Queen died in September, I was very, very sad but I can't say I shed a tear. However I recently saw a short video on social media of the family on the balcony (probably from the Jubilee) and Princess Charlotte was watching her great granny, and when she (the Queen) started waving, Charlotte took the cue and began waving herself. All of a sudden I burst into tears!! Not just a drop either. It occurred to me that this wonderful lady who we are so used to seeing on a regular basis, is no longer alive. Then, again on social media, today I saw a post which said (I'm not quoting) that a woman said to her daughter "I hope I don't get Alzheimer's" and the daughter replied "Don't worry mum, if you do, I'll love you and look after you every day" Then it said the woman had had Alzheimer's for 14 years (or similar). I'm weeping just recounting this story!! So unlike me. What things make you suddenly just lose it?

Grandma70s Wed 30-Nov-22 16:35:03

Music mostly, but the weirdest trigger for me is flowers. If I see on TV or anywhere, wild flowers that remind me of my childhood, I cry. A field of buttercups is disastrous.

Margot Fonteyn’s dancing was so beautiful it often made me cry.

VioletSky Wed 30-Nov-22 16:42:48

Disney films

Every time

Aveline Wed 30-Nov-22 16:46:07

MadeInYorkshire sincere condolences. I'm so sorry to hear your news. Tears indeed will flow and so they should thanks

Blondiescot Wed 30-Nov-22 16:52:39

MadeInYorkshire, I am so very sorry for your loss. flowers

Kim19 Wed 30-Nov-22 17:06:16

Not a teary person but, MIY, you just broke my mould. SO sad at the recent loss of your daughter. Unimaginably awful. 🌷.

Alioop Wed 30-Nov-22 17:15:28

MadeinYorkshire I'm so,so sorry to hear your sad news, my condolences🌹
Some songs make me sad, You Raise Me Up by Josh Groban and Danny Boy remind me of my mum. I always shed a tear when I hear them.

Soroptimum Wed 30-Nov-22 17:19:56

The last scene in The Railway Children, “Daddy My Daddy” 😢

henetha Wed 30-Nov-22 17:24:45

MadeinYorkshire. So very sad for you and sending deepest sympathy to you and your family. It puts my niggles in proportion.
I still can't hear or sing Have Yourselves A Merry Little Christmas without crying. It happened again only yesterday.

gulligranny Wed 30-Nov-22 17:27:07

Brass bands do it for me - there is just something about the sound that goes straight to my spot marked X and sets me off.

I once went alone to a concert at my local theatre by the Grimethorpe Colliery Band; I'd recently ended a very long (and what I now understand to have been of a coercive controlling nature) relationship, and when a lone trombone player gave the most exquisite rendition of the old Frank Sinatra song "All The Way" I totally lost it.

I join with others here in sending sincere condolences to our recently-bereaved fellow GN-er. Very brave to share that raw emotion with us all ..

eazybee Wed 30-Nov-22 17:49:41

Seeing the bereaved walk across the Albert Hall during the Festival of Remembrance.

Witzend Wed 30-Nov-22 17:58:01

Madeinyorkshire, I’m so sorry.💐

As for what makes me cry, little kids singing Away In A Manger is guaranteed to have me groping for the tissues.

Georgesgran Wed 30-Nov-22 19:56:54

💐Madeinyorkshire

Robins!! After I read that the sight of a robin reminds us of a lost love one looking after us.
Absolutely ridiculous, but it didn’t stop me crying buckets in a garden centre on Sunday, when a robin landed just above my head and started singing.

lixy Wed 30-Nov-22 20:22:33

MadeinYorkshire so sorry to hear your sad news. Will be thinking of you.

Tears - very rarely, but my aunt was a member of the Trefoil Guild and their singing of 'Taps' at a funeral caught me out.

MrsKen33 Wed 30-Nov-22 20:48:31

MadeinYorkshire so very sorry about your daughter. My condolences.

I am a great cryer. I could cry for Wales. ‘Chasing cars’ by Snow Patrol, sets me off immediately, poems, passages in’JaneEyre’. A myriad things.

Deedaa Wed 30-Nov-22 20:56:38

There is a video online at the moment of a chimp who's baby was born with breathing difficulties. It was taken away for two days while they sorted the problems out and was then laid back in a cage wrapped in a blanket. The mother is let in and looks around. Then the baby's hand suddenly appears from the blanket. The mother just leaps on the baby, gathers it up and sits there shaking. I defy anyone to watch it dry eyed.

Redhead56 Wed 30-Nov-22 21:05:55

MadeinYorksire So very sorry for your sudden loss of your daughter a massive hug from me to you.

Ali23 Wed 30-Nov-22 21:24:03

Made in Yorkshire, I’m so sorry to hear of the sudden loss of your daughter. I simply can’t imagine the depth of such grief.

hollysteers Wed 30-Nov-22 21:57:12

*MadeinYorkshire” many condolences on your very sad loss.

I usually keep it together at funerals, but if Elgar’s Nimrod comes on, that’s it.
Also the final scene in “Now Voyager” with Bette Davis
“Why ask for the moon when we have the stars?” If I have remembered correctly 😢

Hellogirl1 Wed 30-Nov-22 22:09:36

MadeinYorkshire, all my sympathy and good wishes to you. My eldest son also died suddenly on Thursday, every time I think of him I start crying.

Kim19 Wed 30-Nov-22 22:39:07

Jeepers. Another tragedy. Hellogirl1, for you....... 🌷. I'm extremely sad to read of your loss too. Cannot even start to imagine such pain. 🌷

Coolgran65 Wed 30-Nov-22 22:41:39

So sad for your loss.

The advert where the schoolgirl is being bullied and her dad says, you can talk to me. It makes me so sad.

Nannagarra Wed 30-Nov-22 22:45:47

The pain of losing your children must be unbearable MadeinYorkshire and Hellogirl. I cannot begin to imagine what you’re going through but please allow me to send each of you an enveloping hug.
xx

Harris27 Wed 30-Nov-22 22:48:47

Made in Yorkshire my heartfelt sympathies goes to you x

Harris27 Wed 30-Nov-22 22:49:51

Omg hellogirlll so sorry I can’t imagine your grief xxx

Nannagarra Wed 30-Nov-22 22:54:58

💐 and hugs for Aldom and Barmy too. xx