Thank you that's my problem I have been the strong one holding everyone together and now I'm crumbling, as a family we are a strong unit, we will get through this, I appreciate its just time, I know I am putting to much pressure on myself I shouldn't worry if the cards aren't wrote or the presents aren't wrapped, if the trees not up, but I do a part of me wants all that but another part doesn't, I have told myself I will sort it this week, to me it's late and that's what's getting me all in a flap, I know I shouldn't as like family say sod the cards, stick gifts in bags and don't worry about a tree, but it's not me, I'm normally 'Mrs Christmas' 😊
Thank you for all the kinds words, I'm sorry I've made this thread so sad please carry on as before and make it a joyuos one again, x