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Snobbery- many different forms

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nanna8 Thu 29-Dec-22 00:23:01

I am sorting out my clothes today ( having a break !) and have a large chuck out pile. I find it easy to get rid of the cheap labels but really hard to let go of the ‘nicer’ ones. I think it is a bit of snobbery on my part because some of the things I find it hard to let go of really don’t look nice. Why do I look at the labels anyway ?
I am also a coffee snob , and to a lesser extent a tea snob.
Am I a people snob, too? Quite likely, though it is hidden in the recesses of the brain - probably a kind of academic snobbery because of my background and the family ethos.

Nana3 Thu 29-Dec-22 01:07:40

I'm the same because I've paid more for the good stuff, I don't think that's snobby.
I can be an inverted snob at times but try not to let it show, can't help it sometimes though.

LauraNorderr Thu 29-Dec-22 02:11:09

I’m a sweetie snob, I think people who enjoy haribos are very strange. Don’t like people who like the blue and the pink beaded liquorice all sorts cos they’re mine. All the very best people prefer dark chocolate and those who prefer milk chocolate lack good taste. Don’t get me started on lovers of fruit pastilles.

nanna8 Thu 29-Dec-22 04:16:04

I like dark chocolate and milk choc. I’m just a tart!. Also
red wine and white wine, not to mention a nice peaty whisky now and then.

kittylester Thu 29-Dec-22 05:26:53

Tgat's me off your Christmas card list then Laura! Particularly with regard to the liquorice. grin

AussieGran59 Thu 29-Dec-22 05:56:50

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Maya1 Thu 29-Dec-22 06:00:58

Clothes don't bother me too much, once they need to go, they are off to the charity shop, regardless of the label.
I think l must be a sweetie snob as l prefer Hotel chocolat over the tins of other chocs. I'm lucky though as l live in walking distance of one of their factory shops.
My son on the other hand loves haribos, eats them by the bag full and he is 41... ,
I do however really like fruit pastilles, eating the red and green ones first. So am l sending out mixed messages?
Coffee snob, definitely.

MrsKen33 Thu 29-Dec-22 06:28:41

Coffee snob, definitely. Never instant. Also mud snob. Good quality China not those thick things you can hardly get your lips around. ( though I do have some of those for any workmen) Sad isn’t it?
Clothes not so much but manners, eating etc yes . Very much so.

MrsKen33 Thu 29-Dec-22 06:29:04

Mug snob !!!!!

BlueBelle Thu 29-Dec-22 06:30:29

I only get clothes with a label if I shop in the charity shop so I have no problem getting rid of them Frees my spirit up wonderfully
All coffees taste exactly the same to me I don’t understand it at all
No I don’t think I m a snob over anything at all nothing I can think of anyway

Greyduster Thu 29-Dec-22 09:10:34

I’m a mug snob too, MrsKen. I’d also like to be a malt whisky snob but I can’t afford it! I have a brand “bottom line” though.

Parsley3 Thu 29-Dec-22 09:18:28

Another coffee snob here. Instant coffee is the work of the devil, imo.

Grandma70s Thu 29-Dec-22 09:29:17

My mother was a terrible coffee snob. I’m not. Instant is fine.

Some people would call me a music snob, because I really only like classical, but I don’t think a preference is snobbery.

I’m a bit of a speech snob, but it’s selective. I don’t mind if a garage hand has a regional accent, but I don’t like it if a doctor has. I know that’s irrational, but it’s how I was brought up, I suppose.

Kate1949 Thu 29-Dec-22 09:47:14

I can't think of anything I'm snobbish about. I hate snobbery. If course I like and dislike certain things but I wouldn't call it snobbery. Having been dragged up in the back streets of Birmingham, there is no room for snobbery in my life.

Casdon Thu 29-Dec-22 09:49:19

Coffee for me too, I’m so bad I take my own coffee bags with me when I visit family, I just can’t drink instant. The other petty snobbery I have is footwear - no idea why, but they have to be good quality, clean, and not down at heel. It’s the first thing I look at.

Jane71 Thu 29-Dec-22 09:56:47

I don't think preferring nice clothes to cheap ones, dark to milk chocolate, etc, is being snobbish. The problem comes if you think that the people who aren't like you are in some way inferior.
DH and I are very choosy about whisky for instance, and only go for single malts, but that's just us. There is nothing 'wrong' with blended whisky or the people who drink it.
I don't think we look down on anyone - I hope our friends agree.

merlotgran Thu 29-Dec-22 09:58:02

MrsKen33

Mug snob !!!!!

I suppose I must be a mug snob as well as you will never see me drinking coffee out a mug with tea written on the side and vice versa and I will only keep mugs with anything written on them if they are from up market gift shops.

Chardy Thu 29-Dec-22 10:06:10

Tomato snob here. A friend got me into nice salad tomatoes, and I can't go back!

And even though I drank instant coffee for decades at work, for the last ten or twelve years, instant has been a no-no.

Fleurpepper Thu 29-Dec-22 10:07:07

Jane71

I don't think preferring nice clothes to cheap ones, dark to milk chocolate, etc, is being snobbish. The problem comes if you think that the people who aren't like you are in some way inferior.
DH and I are very choosy about whisky for instance, and only go for single malts, but that's just us. There is nothing 'wrong' with blended whisky or the people who drink it.
I don't think we look down on anyone - I hope our friends agree.

This, thank you.

I like my chocolate to contain real chocolate, not palm oil and tons of sugar. And good coffee. And single Malts- OH likes some I don't like- that's ok.

I have found recently that there is a growing trend with Gin that can be almost 'funny' to watch- as people jump from one brand to another. We enjoy a glass of wine, and know what we like or don't like- but will never spend a fortune for a bottle either, and find it off-putting when people show off with the most expensive bottle, without knowing anything about it- and probably totally unable to taste the difference.

So preferences, why not? At a certain point, I agree it does cross over to snobism.

Sago Thu 29-Dec-22 10:18:37

I wouldn’t ever call it snobbery but just being particular about something.
I am happy to spend good money on mattresses, cashmere, meat and shoes.
I have shoes that are over 20 years old and cashmere jumpers that are 15+.
We are having a sirloin of beef on NYE that cost a small fortune, however it will still be far less expensive than a meal out.
The cheeseboard is primarily from Lidl and the macarons to go with coffee are from Iceland.

Cressy Thu 29-Dec-22 10:46:56

I have noticed lots of comments on GN where posters describe something as ‘good’ as in good coffee, good cheese, etc. Do they mean expensive or just a brand they like? We all have preferences, but not always linked to cost.

Mollygo Thu 29-Dec-22 10:48:36

I’m a shoe snob. I got a pair of very famous make shoes from a charity shop in the days when I enjoyed high heels. I wore them at every appropriate opportunity and I can’t let them go-even though they’re more like an accident waiting to happen shoes for me now.

Chardy Thu 29-Dec-22 10:52:19

I've just been reminded I'm a chocolate and wine un-snob - I prefer the cheap stuff. Or if I dislike the expensive stuff, am I an inverted snob?

HousePlantQueen Thu 29-Dec-22 10:53:09

I just have preferences, whether or not they are snobbery I am not sure. I dislike instant coffee, but love cheaper brands of chocolate such as Quality Street. I cannot wear cheap shoes because I have weird feet, but after the initial outlay the more expensive shoes last me years. I do however, swither about putting 'better' clothes out to the charity shop which is ridiculous as some unworn items are years old.

Callistemon21 Thu 29-Dec-22 10:54:38

The cheeseboard is primarily from Lidl
sago one of the best cheeses I tasted this Christmas (and for a long time) was a Cheddar from Lidl in black wax; can't remember the name unfortunately.