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do you hear the voice of a parent every time you do a certain task ?

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Floradora9 Fri 30-Dec-22 10:00:16

Once again when I sat down to do a bit of mending I looked through my needles and heard my mother saying " Please thread me a needle and not a dagger " . It never fails .

BigBertha1 Fri 30-Dec-22 22:36:18

Aussie grab I am so sorry xx

Callistemon21 Fri 30-Dec-22 22:41:20

I'm sorry for those of you who don't have happy memories of their parents.
sad

dlizi4 Fri 30-Dec-22 23:54:39

Dinnae cast a cloot, till May is oot!
Do not discard warm clothing at glimpses of the sun cos it is freezing still - Scotland lol

Jaberwok Sat 31-Dec-22 16:58:31

Yes I too feel sorry for those without happy memories of their parents. I loved mine dearly and still miss them. 'Least said soonest mended '! Oh, and ' The soft answer turneth away wrath ' That actually does work, well, sometimes!!

MissAdventure Sat 31-Dec-22 17:24:31

NanKate

My dad would often say ‘You haven’t washed your neck’ and he was usually right. 😏

I swear my mum was psychic when it came to knowing about unwashed necks, untucked vests, and other crimes against all that is decent. smile
She checked necks, random spot checks, and we betide anyone who had a "tide mark".

Callistemon21 Sat 31-Dec-22 23:18:29

dlizi4

Dinnae cast a cloot, till May is oot!
Do not discard warm clothing at glimpses of the sun cos it is freezing still - Scotland lol

Oh yes, the English version too.
Cast ne'er a clout
'Til May is out

Is it the month or the flower?

My mother had a thing about vests.
I was allowed to leave the vest off at Whitsun and start wearing summer dresses.

Bigred18 Sat 31-Dec-22 23:28:17

Going out without a vest my Dad would say I'd be sorry when i was older as I'd have a bad back! The chill I suppose!

Bigred18 Sat 31-Dec-22 23:32:04

And always got the thing about May and clout!

hollysteers Sat 31-Dec-22 23:33:29

I came out with
“Would you be as quick in my grave?” to DS the other day when he sat in MY chair. My father used to say it.
He was a miserable bu##er.

Aldom Sat 31-Dec-22 23:52:07

When I laugh I hear my mother. flowers

Callistemon21 Sun 01-Jan-23 00:13:12

Bigred18

Going out without a vest my Dad would say I'd be sorry when i was older as I'd have a bad back! The chill I suppose!

My MIL would warn about your kidneys getting chilled.
The vests had to be long.

She'd be horrified if she could see her DGGGD!

Callistemon21 Sun 01-Jan-23 00:15:28

DGGD!!

NorwayPine Sun 01-Jan-23 02:54:30

Yes and I love it. Cooking …Mom is there, as well as cleaning. Dad is there when I’m gardening or working on the lawn…sometimes grilling. Makes me feel good.

Grammaretto Sun 01-Jan-23 04:03:55

My dad died when I was 5 but I can still remember him cleaning the shoes and teaching me about elbow grease a wonderful product.
If I rolled my sleeves up DG would ask if I was planning to do a day's washing.

25Avalon Sun 01-Jan-23 11:16:56

Cuddling the dog I hear mum say not to put my face next to the dog’s head. She didn’t trust dogs. I trust mine and do it despite the warning voice in my head.