I do most of the above.
And kitty, I use hair oil about once a month- Argan Oil- put it on early evening and it is mostly absorbed by the time I go to bed- and change pillow case the next day. Makes your hair lovely and soft.
For stains on sweatshirts, jumpers, etc, that can't be put in hot wash, I use Fuller's Earth- sprinkle some on, leave overnight, and it just soaks the fat stain out perfectly- brush off and put in wash - perfect. My go to product all the time- cheap and ecological.
A famous matador gored by bull!
Terrible relationship with DIL - am I the problem?

