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Thanks Fanny, saved me the need to post these truths about Stanley Johnson. What a father figure as your role model. Still, Boris Johnson had free choice, out do Stanley or live a decent, honest life. We know what Boris Johnson chose.
Rachel Johnson wrote a few years ago about the level of neglect they grew up with. Shuttled between their parents homes in France and England. She said had they lived on a council estate, social workers would have got involved. Her piece reminded me of Diana Spencer, escorting her brother in long train journeys from their fathers home, so they could visit their mother.
I’ve long seen the similarities in neglect and emotional abuse is some very wealthy families and those seen as deprived
I've kind of seen this before - 'comfortably off' parents leading chaotic lives because of careers or other reasons - indulging their children through neglect, allowing them 'freedoms' that more organised families wouldn't.
Many years ago I had a spell where I needed to work, but not full-time, and answered one of those adverts in "The Lady" (composed as if it'd been written in the 1880s!). A fairly wealthy family (possibly more on paper than in reality) wanted a home-help. The lady of the house had 4 children, all under the age of 6. She was also a portrait-painter, working on a few local commissions. Two au-pairs were employed (together) to look after the children who were, basically, allowed more or less to do what they wanted.
Neglectful indulgence. I have an abiding memory of the four children all sitting around the breakfast table in a very 1950s dilapidated kitchen in this huge Edwardian house, eating boiled eggs. The eldest child, a girl, was left 'in charge' and was encouraging her younger brother to get on with eating. She turned to me with an air of exasperation and sighed, "oh God, he's such a bore with eggs"!
Father was doing something in 'the City', mother was out painting portraits, and the au-pairs were washing and ironing the children's clothes, cleaning their rooms, preparing food, etc - and taking it in turns to nurse the youngest of 9 months - whilst the others just did their own thing. Absolutely chaotic.