Second wedding present

Roses, silver picture frame, fruit tree.

a tree for their garden..maybe fruit or silverbirch

Garden voucher or (my preference) a donation to charity that's close to them. You can say you intend to do this and ask which charity they'd prefer.

I would probably roll my eyes if someone bought me a spa/holiday voucher/garden furniture/more crystal/more roses etc.

Sorry - but it really depends on the person!
My mother would probably have been happy with any of these!

The photobook idea may work for some.

It is a valid point that this couple might genuinely not want presents at all.

However, instead of just giving them something, ring whichever of the pair you are closest to, and explain that you feel that such an important occasion should be markd in some way. You can then ask if there is some little thing they would like, a dvd, a book, or something one or both have always wanted, but never allowed themselves to buy or wish for.

I would never denote to charity in this sort of situation, unless I knew that the couple concerned regularly did denote to a particular charity. I would not be pleased if someone gave to a charity I would never support myself on my behalf.

If they still say they don't want anything - make a firm invitation to lunch or dinner at your house after they come home from their honeymoon, or you from your holiday.

Some friends of mine married later in life and despite it being a first marriage for both, they asked for donations to some favourite charities as they had everything they needed. A charity donation is often the ideal gift to those who have everything.
I used to struggle to buy a gift for my mum after she moved into sheltered accommodation where she had little space and wanted for nothing. For her last Christmas I bought a charity gift supporting a charity dear to her heart. I told her that was what I was doing. In the end she was admitted to hospital around Christmas and never returned home. When sorting her stuff we had unopened Christmas presents to deal with without indication of who they were from so I was glad my gift wasn't wasted!

Second marriages often say they don’t want anything (and may not expect). I would go on that premise.

But when writing out their wedding card, perhaps say that you will treat them to a nice dinner out somewhere after the honeymoon. That way you get to enjoy it too!
To a long and prosperous life!
USA Gundy

Lots of good ideas , thank you ladies. Even though they’ve said no presents. I know several other guests who are getting gifts. Charities , I’m not sure what charity they support . She’s not really a pampering type.
They are foodies and like fine wines and They also love their garden . So I’m thinking of named roses or a case of wine .

A pewter photo frame if they a actually print photos, donation to a charity on their name. Otherwise go with what the couple have requested.

I have read some of the replies .. and I agree that a Voucher or Paid Reservation at a lovely hotel is a wonderful gift to a couple that is getting married for the 2nd time.

Most people getting married for the 2nd time, have so many types of cookware, silverware, serving plates and bowls etcetra.

A gift the 2 will remember is the nicest form of a gift especially for close friends or professional colleagues of long standing.

For my second marriage we asked for donations to Save The Children. Although we still did receive some actual gifts I just loved choosing what to ‘buy’ from the list provided by the charity. Must admit I was disappointed we couldn’t buy a yak but I seem to recollect books, chickens and mosquito nets. I sent thank yous to all who donated and let them know what we chose.
I still have the Save the Children fridge magnet. Not the husband tho, didn’t keep him.

We decided that, aged 65 and 67, we didn't need any presents so we offered our guests the chance to donate to their own favourite charity instead. A few bought presents but most were pleased by our decision.