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Doodledog Sun 13-Aug-23 08:33:28

I don’t want to derail the lesbian thread, as that is a very important issue, but I thought some of us might be interested in this article in the Sunday Telegraph. It is good to see that the tide has turned, and that our daughters and granddaughters have not yet been completely sold out.

All new public lavatories must include single-sex male and female toilets.
All new buildings open to the public will have to include single-sex male and female lavatories under plans announced by Kemi Badenoch.

Draft guidance published on Monday aims to protect the privacy of women and elderly individuals and would apply to all non-residential buildings.

Ms Badenoch, the Minister for Women and Equalities, stated that the Government must step in when “common sense disappears,” following a rise in businesses offering gender-neutral toilets without separate single-sex facilities.

Comparable to bathrooms in family homes, unisex toilets are fully enclosed spaces with lockable doors and sinks. Gender-neutral toilets, on the other hand, are mixed-sex facilities where both men and women use the same cubicles and sinks.

The proposed policy would mean a new supermarket, shop or restaurant should have separate single-sex toilets for men and women at a minimum.

In a piece for The Telegraph, Ms Badenoch argues that the discourse around sex-based rights has been “confused” by gender activists, leading to the necessity for legislation that would not have been required a decade ago.

’My job is increasingly spent legislating for common sense and stopping those intent on causing harm,” she says.

“Women should have exclusive access to public toilet facilities reserved specifically for them. Men should have the same. Female loos should have cubicles, while male ones can have urinals.

“Transgender individuals should have privacy. The signage on the door should clearly indicate what to expect.”

Ms Badenoch criticised the Old Vic Theatre in central London for its decision in 2019 to convert all of its male and female toilets to gender-neutral facilities.

She also mentioned that doctors had recently reported instances where girls in certain schools either contracted infections or skipped classes entirely “because they refused to urinate all day” due to their reluctance to use gender-neutral toilets.

Furthermore, ministers will appoint a “lavatories tsar” to address Britain’s toilet crisis, as 10 per cent of facilities have not been reopened by councils following the pandemic.

Industry leaders assert that public restroom availability has decreased by 60 per cent since 2011 due to budget cuts and facilities not reopening post-lockdowns, leading the country into a state of “sanitation darkness.”

Plans are now underway for a Toilet Commissioner who will collaborate with an independent panel of advisors to formulate a strategic plan and reverse this trend.

Dorrain Sun 13-Aug-23 08:45:17

'’My job is increasingly spent legislating for common sense and stopping those intent on causing harm,” she (Ms Badenoch) says.

Here, here...common sense is a limited commodity today!

Doodledog Sun 13-Aug-23 09:15:47

It does seem ridiculous that we need a ‘lavatories tsar’ at all, but if that’s what it takes to ensure that women can have safe spaces, then so be it.

paddyann54 Sun 13-Aug-23 09:34:46

Single sex spaces have been mandatory for a long time,this is the tories pretending they are making changes where none were needed!If you'll look back at the threads about trans issues you can clearly see that single sex spaces were always safe

Galaxy Sun 13-Aug-23 09:41:54

The interpretation of organisations of the equality act was not correct this helps them to get provision right. Am happy to list the women who have been impacted by spaces which were supposed to be single sex and werent.

Ailidh Sun 13-Aug-23 09:49:52

I have never been in a public building where toilets that included more than one cubicle were not single sex.

Doctor's, hospital, dentist, Costa etc all have facilities labelled for use by either sex and by any (dis)ability but they are single cubicles off a public space.

Are there really public facilities in this country where men and women enter the same, multi-cubicled area?
If so, I'm gob-smacked. If no, I don't get the point of the announcement.

Doodledog Sun 13-Aug-23 09:52:44

Are there really public facilities in this country where men and women enter the same, multi-cubicled area?
Yes. In universities, theatres, galleries, council offices and many places that fell under the Stonewall spell.

Galaxy Sun 13-Aug-23 09:53:16

Yes all the toilets at a pub I visited a couple of weeks ago were mixed sex, all toilets in my husbands workplace are mixed sex, etc etc.

TerriBull Sun 13-Aug-23 09:56:40

I think there is an enormous difference between the loos found in restaurants that sometimes suffer from limited space and are therefore unisex, like the ones we visited a couple of days ago, floor to ceiling enclosure, not a problem, the only purpose of such a place is a quick visit for a necessary call of nature and out again. Unlike say, an area where there are a number of loos which will be used by many women, and as my husband often tells me when we both have an occasion to use the loo together, he goes to the corresponding male toilets, he will often tell me what a disgusting state they are in, and given the fact that in the workplace some women are having to use a unisex facility, that seems to be a general consensus amongst the women who are now asked to share with men. That is of course quite aside from any dignity or potential danger point of view. Having used changing, shower rooms for years now, that are a feature of health clubs, gyms etc. and something that never occurred to me until of late, given the circumstances of being in a state of undress it does focus the mind as to the vulnerability of women and girls if a male bodied person were to share such a space as has happened in Canada and North America, particularly at off peak times when it's pretty quiet and you can find yourself there very occasionally quite alone.

Shinamae Sun 13-Aug-23 09:57:06

Just opened a brand-new suite of toilets near our market, very smart and unisex…

Ailidh Sun 13-Aug-23 09:58:55

Thank you. Then I stand gob-smacked.

I've never seen why single room loos in the workplace, each containing exactly the same pedestal, needed to be labeled male or female, no different to one's loo at home.

My naïve wee mind never thought that males and females would be asked to enter the same room full of cubicles.

Doodledog Sun 13-Aug-23 10:40:23

But that’s what many women have been complaining about for years😀. Did you think we were all losing the plot?

toscalily Sun 13-Aug-23 10:58:06

Definitely a move in the right direction, we certainly need a lot more common sense being used rather than the misguided bowing down to the unreasonable, overloud, demands of a minority.

JackyB Sun 13-Aug-23 11:31:07

Did you never watch Ally McBeal? (OK , I know that's American, but its the same sort of thing.)

Blossoming Sun 13-Aug-23 11:45:34

Shinamae

Just opened a brand-new suite of toilets near our market, very smart and unisex…

Same here Shinamae, they’re awful.

VioletSky Sun 13-Aug-23 11:45:48

So the government announced they will adhere to the equality act which has been in place for years as if they only just heard of it

Unisex, single use toilets which many of the sensible middle ground would like for their own privacy and peace are still allowed

Disabled toilets and changing spaces will still be allowed to be unisex

Trans people who pass as their internal gender will carry on using any toilet they feel appropriate as they have always done and no one will know

Masculine appearing women and butch lesbians will carry on getting bullied in toilets

Schools and universities who are trying to support and show acceptance to all their pupils will likely not be given any funding to create a means for some of their pupils to use the toilet

Absolutely nothing changed and no problems resolved is somehow a reason for celebration

Lathyrus Sun 13-Aug-23 12:03:02

Absolutely nothing has changed

Following my experience of being followed into a women’s toilet by a man who then masturbated in another cubicle I’m hopeful now that when it is reported the response won’t be “She often does it but she identifies as a woman so we can’t do anything about it.”

fflur Sun 13-Aug-23 12:10:13

We used a new state of the art leisure centre once only because of its unisex changing rooms. Neither my husband or I felt happy showering and changing amongst lots of people of both sexes. When I go to yoga classes women occasionally need to go to the loo quickly in their bare feet. The toilets were turned to unisex and soon the floor and toilet seat were soaking with urine. We used to chat a few minutes in the ladies but that was impossible. My lovely local swimming pool needs refurbishment but I prefer the large ladies changing room with cubicles but where most of us change by the benches and chat in various stages of undress. We are mostly pensioners and all shapes and sizes but it's nice to be relaxed about our bodies, which you can't in a mixed changing room

Visgir1 Sun 13-Aug-23 12:12:21

I was in New York recently most restaurant Loo's are unisex.
The Loo's within the Hospital Dept I work in have been unisex since we opened the New Build in 2008.

On the other side, I was at Hampton Court Flower show few weeks ago.. Long ques for the ladies, no ques for the Gents this would have been perfect for unisex Loo's.. I don't mind to be honest as long as they are clean.

Chestnut Sun 13-Aug-23 12:12:24

What about schools, does anyone know what toilets there are especially in mixed secondary schools? The idea of boys being in the same space as young girls on their periods is horrendous.

Doodledog Sun 13-Aug-23 12:18:39

Your post is as contradictory as ever, VS. How can you say that absolutely nothing has changed and also that universities will now have to respect women by allowing them their own sex-based facilities? That will come as a big relief (no pun intended) to me, as what was the Ladies where I work (which of course already included a disabled space) is currently ’gender-neutral’, so is used by everyone. I’m rarely there at night these days, but knowing that men can legitimately be in there I would be very reluctant to use them when the place is quiet.

rafichagran Sun 13-Aug-23 12:38:03

Put simply, when I use a public toilet, I want to use a female one only. I would not feel comfortable in a gender neutral space.

Shinamae Sun 13-Aug-23 12:42:18

Blossoming

Shinamae

Just opened a brand-new suite of toilets near our market, very smart and unisex…

Same here Shinamae, they’re awful.

I am going to scrutinise it more when I go in again to see what exactly is on the doors, but from what I can remamber it’s an outline of a man and an outline of a woman on each door..

Doodledog Sun 13-Aug-23 12:48:54

If they are separate and don’t open onto a shared space that sounds fine - it is when men can ‘legitimately’ be in closed women’s spaces away from other people that the problem arises- so a shared sink area or a corridor leading back to the public area - that sort of thing.

Katie59 Sun 13-Aug-23 12:59:03

Mixed sex cubicles with full height door and partitions plus a washbasin are fine and being fitted commonly. In schools a separate communal male and female toilets are more practical,
Badenochs proposals don’t address the wants of males identifying as female.