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BlueBelle Thu 07-Sept-23 13:26:43

I got the best career I ever had had aged 53/4 And had 15/16 years working within it

welbeck Thu 07-Sept-23 12:53:03

the nhs is so short staffed, they don't care what age people are.
plenty of jobs vacant.

nanna8 Thu 07-Sept-23 12:48:25

Yes- go for it and good luck, hope it all pans out for you!

AmberSpyglass Thu 07-Sept-23 12:44:09

What about training to be a doula?

grandtanteJE65 Thu 07-Sept-23 12:40:53

It may be too late to find employment when you are qualified, as the cult of the young is still in full blast if you are over 50 and looking for any kind of job.

But don't let that stop you.

The satisfaction of finally qualifying as the midwife you have always wanted to be will be immense, and during your training you may well meet people who will realise that you have valuable experience and be happy to employ you as soon as you qualify.

If not, and you are willing to travel, I doubt that Doctors without Borders, The Red Cross or any other organizations that provides health care where the need is greatest will cavil at your age.

Go for it, and good luck!

pascal30 Thu 07-Sept-23 12:37:35

definitely go for it.. you bring wisdom and compassion alongside your other numerous skills

Daddima Thu 07-Sept-23 12:21:14

I would never have successfully breast fed three children had it been left to the young whippersnapper of a sister who was ‘supporting’ me. Next day she was replaced by a much older nurse, who instantly made me feel much more relaxed, and got me off to a flying start.
Another vote for ‘go for it’!

aggie Thu 07-Sept-23 12:15:35

Go for it ! Wonderful job !

eazybee Thu 07-Sept-23 12:14:39

Definitely go for it.
I know a nurse who didn't complete her training, but after other jobs, returned and retrained at least twenty years later, and another nurse who qualified in her twenties, then trained as a teacher but returned to nursing in her late fifties, just in time for the pandemic.
Both thoroughly enjoyed it and are still working.

sodapop Thu 07-Sept-23 12:12:29

Go for it finns your life experience as well as your training will be invaluable.
Good luck.

ALT57 Thu 07-Sept-23 12:10:36

Here you go

www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-7001295/Former-banker-abandoned-80K-year-career-achieve-dream-midwife-aged-61.html?ito=rss-flipboard

You are never too old go for it women need you!

DerbyshireLass Thu 07-Sept-23 12:04:48

Carpe Diem!!!!!

dogsmother Thu 07-Sept-23 11:58:31

Oh go for it!
Midwifery would have been wonderful, another here who didn’t complete nurse training, continued however in an allied healthcare setting.
You have probably got 10 years + post qualification that will include updates so you do have time.

Chocolatelovinggran Thu 07-Sept-23 11:53:20

Think of all the experiences you could bring to your new role- a labouring woman might well be comforted by your obvious maturity. Good luck .

Hithere Thu 07-Sept-23 11:37:46

Go for it!

Poppyred Thu 07-Sept-23 11:35:09

It’s never too late! I always wanted to be a midwife but life got in the way….and yes I do regret not going for it. Good luck x

finns Thu 07-Sept-23 11:29:51

i’ve always wanted to be a midwife/ nurse and come from a family of nurses and paramedics police military etc.

i started training in my 20s but was happily sidetracked by having my own babies and decided not to be a career woman ha ! I did get a degree later and have done lots of fabulous jobs, but the dream of midwife never left me. Now my children are mostly grown up and i thought about going for it - to finally have the time to myself and dedicate myself to my own dreams. I could start the journey by college and renewing old qualifications as a mature student alongside my life experiences of birth and losses and everything in between, but yet again i’ve had a crisis of confidence- am I just being a past it old fool ?, all be it a young 53yr still lively not ready to write myself off lady ? I’d be 58 at qualifying
is it too late ?
fx