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Namsnanny Wed 27-Sept-23 14:07:04

Agree with everyone, it is heart warming, enjoy your relationship.

I had something similar happen to me, as my dil said she loved me on her wedding day. I was stunned, so didnt reply, just kissed her on the cheek
When I told my son how worried I was about not replying, he said Oh she was probably tipsy and wont remember!😂
I wasnt quite sure what to think after that!

sodapop Wed 27-Sept-23 12:40:51

That's wonderful downtoearth I can understand exactly how good you feel now.
A positive story about a daughter in law for a change.

dragonfly46 Wed 27-Sept-23 09:46:36

How lovely. I was in the same position but now feel my DiL has warmed to me too. It took patience but it paid off.

Shelflife Wed 27-Sept-23 09:45:31

That is heart warming, I am so pleased for you. Clearly you handled the situation well! You must be so happy - great news.

GrannyGravy13 Wed 27-Sept-23 09:45:26

How lovely for you, you are obviously a patient and very kind lady who realised your DiL needed time to know you and grow to love you.

We are all different, and cannot instantly love and trust our in-laws on sight.

Cabowich Wed 27-Sept-23 09:41:30

Paid off, not payed off blush

Cabowich Wed 27-Sept-23 09:39:42

That's good to hear. Well done with the patience - it payed off. Long may the good relations continue.

downtoearth Wed 27-Sept-23 09:36:53

My son and his partner been together 6 years,parents to my little grandaughter aged 5.
My son always very loving to me.
His partner has always held me at arms length,getting to know me,as little one came along quite quickly,no problem I have just gone at her pace and followed her lead.
I have gradually noticed a warming and thawing over last few months and last night she ended a never before phone call with love you.
I have got a warm fuzzy feeling.