I was bought up in a house without central getting and ice on the bedroom window, it was a trial going to bed trying to get warm even with a hot water bottle and lots of blankets, the dash down stairs to stand by the fire getting dressed, the cold bathroom, it was horrible. I consider myself lucky to live in a house with central heating, when I'm in the heatings is on. We saved for our old age, my husband died at 60 though. Surprised to read about people on here who frequently talk about all their holidays and having their own business who are quite resigned to being permanently cold. Some will not waste money on heating, others genuinely cannot afford it. The heating allowance this winter would take you through the first three months of the year. Breathing in the cold air doesn't do you any good, won't shorten your life but cause health problems. My dear grandmother lived until nearly a hundred, with a fire just in one room, in a large Victorian terrace house, she used to cry some times with the cold but was very poor her family struggling them selves, not the good old days at all. I would rather do without a holiday and new clothes.
Shirls I could cry for you, you made everyone welcome and you're left with a big bill and struggling, make sure you visit them in future. Don't these people think?