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The Sixties! What are your memories?

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Sparklefizz Wed 31-Jan-24 19:28:25

We went off at a tangent on the 50 Book Challenge thread after the mention of a book about The Beatles, so I thought I'd start a new thread to save derailing TerriBull's thread.

I have memories of going to several pop concerts - one was The Beatles and Roy Orbison in London, and there were several others in my home town - Billy Fury, Eden Kane, Helen Shapiro and Gene Pitney to name a few.

It was a wonderful time to be young - the music, the clothes, the dancing and fun.

kittylester Thu 01-Feb-24 07:06:09

I feel very fortunate to have been at just the right age to enjoy the sixties. Everything seemed new, with endless possibilities. There was a freedom to be different - though, of course, we all conformed to the new fashions, listened to the new music etc.

There were huge leaps in science - the pill - technology, space flight.

Sara1954 Thu 01-Feb-24 07:49:31

I had the white boots, probably a cheap version, because the PVC or whatever they were made of kept peeling off.
I also managed to buy a full length red plastic coat, loved it, but eventually swapped it with a friend for her blue midi one, because it trailed on the floor.

Sparklefizz Thu 01-Feb-24 08:23:44

I had the trendy white boots which I bought in London on a shopping trip. Once home in the market town where I lived, I used to get stopped in the street and asked where I got them.

I also had a mini length PVC mac, very mini dresses with big zips up the front and a mini length "fun fur" coat, and would sellotape the sides of my hair to my face to try and achieve the Sandie Shaw hair style (no straighteners then obviously.)

Sara1954 Thu 01-Feb-24 09:04:18

We used to iron each other’s hair, very risky!

silverlining48 Thu 01-Feb-24 09:11:15

My friend ironed her fringe

Jaxjacky Thu 01-Feb-24 09:54:26

I just caught the end of the sixties, the seventies were my significant years.

Bella23 Thu 01-Feb-24 10:01:32

I was a teenager in the 60's it was a "Hard days night", living in the unsophisticated far northwest to try and keep abreast of fashion and music. Trips had to be made to Newcastle and my aunt in the midlands kept me in tights. Suspenders were still the norm where I lived much to the boys' delight but not the girls.It all changed when I became a student in the North East.

Sara1954 Thu 01-Feb-24 10:01:59

Jaxjacky, me too. When I left home in 1970 it seemed to be a case of anything goes, I was mostly influenced by the hippie fashion, but caught the tail end of sixties fashion.
Also have really fond memories of all my early Laura Ashley stuff, and a shoe shop called Sasha, which sold the most gorgeous clogs.

henetha Thu 01-Feb-24 10:06:39

My children were born in the sixties so it was all about babies and nappies and potty training for me. But I was very aware of the amazing music, clothes, etc. I was a bit envious of all the fun but nevertheless loved being a mother in my twenties.

harrigran Thu 01-Feb-24 10:40:18

I was born in 1946 so I was just the right age to enjoy the 60s. I was tall and skinny so all the clothes suited me, I was one of the first among friends to wear the mini skirt.
I met DH when I just turned 17 and that is when my life really began. I left home on the eve of my 18th birthday and moved into a nurses home which was much closer to where he lived.
We used to visit local clubs where a lot of the bands appeared before they became really famous, I remember going to see the Rolling Stones. We used to go to Durham University student union dances and saw bands there, some of them still perform 😯
I nursed a band member from the Overlanders, they were appearing in the north about the time they made number one with Michelle.
I married in 1967, lived in a cottage with no central heating, washing machine or fridge but we were so happy.
Had my first baby in 1969 and we managed to buy a fridge but I had to wait another year to get a washing machine.
The 60s were a great time to be young and we saw so many changes and improvements to life.

Callistemon21 Thu 01-Feb-24 10:56:44

silverlining48

My friend ironed her fringe

I remember a rather prim and proper college lecturer telling us that his daughter got him to iron her hair

I always wanted hair like Cathy McGowan! Perhaps I should have got my Dad to iron mine 😁

Callistemon21 Thu 01-Feb-24 11:02:57

Kate1949

Four of us were let into Birmingham Town Hall by a Beatles roadie as we didn't have tickets. We followed Roy Orbison's voice until we reached the seats at the back of the stage and saw Roy and then The Beatles. On the way up the stairs we opened a door which was a broom cupboard. We were hoping to hide in there with the hope of somehow getting to meet the lads. Unfortunately there were already girls in there! This was after the George chat and chasing Paul in a coach around the Town Hall. blush

I saw The Beatles in Wolverhampton before they were famous; they were the supporting act for Chris Montez and Tommy Roe. After The Beatles had been on, no-one was interested in the main acts, I felt sorry for them 😃
Although I really wanted to go backstage afterwards, we all had to catch the coach home again.
My cousin lived round the corner from John Lennon in Liverpool.

Kate1949 Thu 01-Feb-24 11:29:27

We first heard of them when a school friend went to see John Leyton (remember him?). She told us about 'this group who all the girls were screaming at'.
Exciting times Callistemon. I can remember in the tour I mentioned above, Roy Orbison was the headliner and The Beatles were second. I believe that halfway through the tour the billing was changed. I bet Roy was fuming.

Chestnut Thu 01-Feb-24 11:34:20

Kate1949

We first heard of them when a school friend went to see John Leyton (remember him?). She told us about 'this group who all the girls were screaming at'.
Exciting times Callistemon. I can remember in the tour I mentioned above, Roy Orbison was the headliner and The Beatles were second. I believe that halfway through the tour the billing was changed. I bet Roy was fuming.

And yet years later Roy Orbison and George were great buddies and formed the Travelling Wilburys. Maybe he had forgiven them by then. 😁

Kate1949 Thu 01-Feb-24 11:35:54

Yes indeed.

TerriBull Thu 01-Feb-24 11:55:32

The sixties, I was aged between six and sixteen, they were the longest decade I remember, time goes so slowly, when you're young. They started off when I wasn't a fully formed thing, just at the grub stage really. I've had a long think about everything that resonated and hopefully have put them into some sort of chronological order, bear in mind important things went right over my head and I was mainly obsessed with the facile and the superficial.

I remember writing "1960" in my school exercise book and we were told this is the beginning of a new decade. I could read by that time so had begun my journey in working my way through Enid Blyton's lengthy catalogue. I guess I was aware of a few things beyond my world.

There was a man called Harold McMillan who I learned was a Prime Minister, he looked like a bloodhound, sort of serious and sad.
There was another man called Eisenhower who was a President of a big important country called America.
There were things that went into outer space called sputniks
Then a man called Yuri Gagarin who went up into outer space too, he was Russian, they were kind of enemies.
There were men who roamed around called Teddy Boys, they were scary, they didn't look like either teddies or boys and had a lot of grease on their hair.
There was someone called Elvis Presley who sang and also had grease on his hair. I didn't like him, but years later I did, by which time he was dead.
We were forced to drink school milk, I hate milk, still do sad
I was also forced to have a beret plonked on my head when we went to mass on Sunday, because girls and women had to cover their heads back then, I always said "why" but never got a satisfactory answer.
On the upside I got 2/6 pocket money on Saturdays which I spent pretty much on sweets, it's a miracle I still have all my own teeth, my brother and I spent the morning at children's Saturday Morning Cinema.
My brother gave me lifts on the back of his bike, we fell off together, I chipped a tooth, my mum said "oh dear! you'll never be an air hostess now"
Then there was another President in America which seemed to make my parents happy because he was young and a catholic, we were a catholic family.
Apparently there could have been a world war because of something called the Cuban Missile Crisis but I knew nothing about it. The young president was a hero when he faced off the Russians.
Then something terrible happened he was assassinated and he died, my mum cried.
I became a Brownie and much later on a girl guide but only briefly because they had hats like air hostesses and if I wasn't going to be one because I'd chipped a tooth, but I did get it capped later, anyway at least I got to wear the hat smile
Happier day! Yeah! yeah! yeah! The Beatles had arrived, they burst into being and my world seemed less dreary, even my parents liked them. I got a record player for my birthday and then both their first two albums for Christmas. At last something decent to listen to in the house instead of classical music and opera.
I wanted to look like a Ronette around this time, but was too young for eyeliner, so I just spent ages backcombing my hair in front of the mirror.
There was a lot of snow one winter, it went on and on and we, my brother and I were packed off to school looking like idiots with scarves wrapped around our heads and our school hats on top. I think we wore wellingtons every day as well.
Someone called Christine was in the news causing a kerfuffle, everyone appeared to be talking about her, and it seemed to me that grown ups seemed to hush their voices at the mention of her name.
I was fully immersed in my adoration of The Beatles, so nothing else really mattered, It seemed Paul McCartney had a girlfriend called Jane Asher, I wanted to be her and look like her.
All change! around '64 another Harold was
in charge of the country, Wilson this time complete with raincoat and pipe. I was only really aware of him through Mike Yarwood's sublime impressions, any interest in politics was years away, I didn't understand the dynamics and far too preoccupied with my love of The Beatles who had just launched a Hard Day's Night what bliss our idols had made a film, no separate performances in those days, just turned up whenever, sometimes in the middle of the film and watched it around till when you came in and way beyond.
The power of advertising - Smiths Had Crispness In The Bag, loved them, not least of all for the little blue package of salt!
Meanwhile, The Beatles, had followed up Hard Days Night with Help, back to the cinema for more innumerable performances.
A programme called Crossroads was launched, which made me want to live in a motel, or at least holiday in one.
A couple of terrible happenings - The Moors Murders and Aberfan that saw my mum crying again. All those innocent children sad
I broke my right arm, falling out of a tree in juniors, I had to write with my left, very spidery and the head teacher told me my writing was appalling, she clearly didn't understand the concept of mitigating circumstances hmm
Off to senior school, the best thing about that was we had desks with lift up lids, into which went pin ups, starting with Paul McCartney.
Two more dreadful assassinations, Martin Luther King and Robert Kennedy
George Harrison married Patti Boyd in the registry office of my home town. I wanted to look and be Patti Boyd, even her slightly protruding teeth, she looked wonderful whatever she wore.
I was heavily influenced by publications such as Petticoat, Jackie and Rave magazines.
I had a job after school helping in a grocery shop up the road from my house, I saved up for a pair of boots other than that splurged much of the money on Mary Quant make up. Friends and I went up to London on Saturdays to moon about Carnaby Street and Kings Road wishing we had money to buy what was on offer.
A friend and I found John Lennon's house in Weybridge, a miracle really no Google maps then. Anyway he wasn't there but we got to see the big Chelsea boot in the garden. I never wanted to look like Yoko Ono.
Inside my desk at school Paul McCartney had been replaced by Scott Walker.
Then this manufactured poor man's Beatles arrived from America called The Monkees, Scott Walker picture came down out of my desk and up went Davy Jones. Samantha Juste, Micky Dolenz girlfriend opened a boutique in my town. I wanted to be and look like Samantha Juste, she had a great job putting records on TOTP, in retrospect though she probably had to sit next to Jimmy Saville when he was on, so possibly not so great hmm
Thursday was the best night on the telly, once that boring Tomorrow's World had shifted off, TOTP, followed by The Men From Uncle. I remember Sonny and Cher appearing on it. I wanted to look like Cher, but didn't want to be her because she was married to Sonny.
My parents often watched what was described as satire on tv, That Was The Week That Was, followed by The Frost Report and eventually Monty Python, I think I developed a taste for such humour around that time.
The age of psychedelia and Flower Power found us all living in a Yellow Submarine, looking a Whiter Shade of Pale with Flowers in our Hair. How I loved that dreamy WSofP it seemed to be number 1 forever.
Meanwhile we were studying Romeo and Juliet for English Literature at school and our teacher took us to see the Franco Zeffirelli film, our nuns had an apoplexy when they found out there was a nude scene. I came away wanting to look like and to be Olivia Hussey, beautiful skin and hair. They also found out that some of us had been to see Hair, more nudity and more apoplexies for them. Whilst wanting to look like Olivia Hussey I veered between wanting to have her hair and Marsha Hunt's she was so beautiful.
Friends and I crept in under age to see our first X rated film, Bonnie and Clyde, well all fell instantly in love with Warren Beatty. Davy Jones was removed from my desk lid with apologies and replaced with Warren, well be was taller, so that was that! I wanted to look and be Faye Dunaway it was the high cheekbones, I hunted down my discarded Sunday Mass beret and spent time in front of the mirror wearing it and sucking my cheeks in, still didn't look like her though sad
I scoured publications such as NME and Melody Maker, it seemed the epi centre of the music world had shifted away from England and off to the West Coast of America. I was beginning to like a lot of those sounds in particular The Doors, Jim Morrison, a thoroughly bad lot was also somewhat of a heart throb and I shifted Warren along in my desk to make room for him!
I loved the cinema, huge films that made an impression were Dr Zhivago, Funny Girl and Butch Cassidy and The Sundance Kid, Far The Madding Crowd, once again I veered between wanting to look like Julie Christie and Barbra Striesand.
Men landed on the Moon
Woodstock
The Beatles broke up sad sad sad
The decade ended violently with the awful murder of Sharon Tate.

I realise that although I eulogise the sixties, it wasn't really my decade at all, because I was too young for any of it, boyfriends, work and spending ability, travel, leaving home, marriage, house buying all came in the 70, but it's the 60s I remember with such fondness even though, for me it was pretty uneventful.

Sparklefizz Thu 01-Feb-24 11:59:20

I danced on the stage at the end of the musical Hair which seemed to be the "in" thing to do. I hasten to say that I wasn't alone, and I had all my clothes on!

Sara1954 Thu 01-Feb-24 12:18:24

TerriBull, same age, same memories, but I can’t believe you got 2/6 pocket money, I only got 9d

Iam64 Thu 01-Feb-24 12:38:05

1965 - invited by a friend to join others watching Bob Dylan on tv. Seeing Cher and Bono singing I’ve got you babe on top of the pops.
White plastic lace up boots, black plastic coat. Growing my hair, reading the beat poets and Kerouac.
Married at 18 in 1967 big mistake but escaped in 1979.
Great times and so much personal growth as a result of marrying in haste

Skydancer Thu 01-Feb-24 12:42:50

Am I wearing rose-tinted spectacles or wasn't everything SO much better back then?

annodomini Thu 01-Feb-24 12:53:47

My hair wouldn't grow to any great length but was back-combed into as bouffant as style as possible. My best buy was a sleeveless orange bouclé dress with a keyhole in the front. I made a succession of shift dresses , some of them in 'psychedelic' prints and, when necessary, wore a short yellow PVC raincoat with matching wellies and sou'wester hat - and, I seem to remember a yellow umbrella. For work - teaching - I acquired a black and white checked pinafore dress - just above knee length - worn with a white polo necked jumper, black lacy stockings and black kitten heels. Not sure what the 6th formers I taught thought about all that! Unfortunately, it was the kind of school where teachers still wore academic gowns which spoiled the effect.

Grammaretto Thu 01-Feb-24 13:24:41

Nothing has been said that's not been said..
Such a long decade. I was 11 in 1960 so school dominated the first few years. I was horse mad. My first proper boyfriend in 1963 . He had a lambretta and mum was terrified of me riding on it.
My older sister was an extra in a Cliff Richard film. I was jealous.
We made our own clothes.
I had a Saturday job in Sloane Square so walked along the King's Road Chelsea but was oblivious to its charms. I went to football matches with my brother. I never saw the Beatles but did see the Stones and Cilla Black at Wembley.
We moved to Birmingham in 1965 and I loved the "Northern" accent.
I was soon put right
😊
I went to art school and thought myself very sophisticated I wasn't
Met my lovely DH we married in 1969 and had 51 happy years before he died.
4 DC and 7 wonderful DGC. The 60s were my youth, not always happy.

Philippa111 Thu 01-Feb-24 13:45:05

I remember wearing just black and walking barefoot around town. My feet were filthy!! I though I was super cool 😎

paris123 Thu 01-Feb-24 15:29:38

l absolutely loved the 60's fashion. l
As l was petite and slim all the styles seem to fit so well. l started making all my own clothes when l was 14 and every o
Saturday would go with mom to our local market to chose yards of 'wayout' prints for skirts ]and tops and rayon nylon fabric to make 'baby doll nighties lol

l self learnt how to crochet and made crochet mini dresses. l remember l made a backless crochet yellow tricel wool mini dress to wear to the first night club l went to with my soon to be husband. l was practically mobbed in the ladies toilet by all the girls asking me where did l get the dress from.
l was over the moon when a few years ago l found the excate same pattern to buy off a seller who sold vintage crochet patterns. l bought it and my 2 girls keep telling me l should crochet the mini dresses as they would sell like hot cakes nowadays.
l bought a mini mock suede belted coat in sky blue,
my then to be husband said l looked so hot with my chestnut long red hair lol. l must have liked that colour as l remember buying mock suede knee length boots in sky blue lol
l wasnt allowed to go to concerts or nightclubs at 15 but my bedroom walls were covered in ripped out pictures of all the new bands on the scene from the comic ' Jackie'
Everything was so new and exciting....it was a great time to be a teenager.
Does any one remember the see through mini coats that shocked parents when shown on the tv news of girls walking down carnaby street with no bra on lol . We all thought how cool and outrangeous they were but that fashion soon went lol

Callistemon21 Thu 01-Feb-24 15:51:26

Skydancer

Am I wearing rose-tinted spectacles or wasn't everything SO much better back then?

Well, there was the Cold War, the Campaign for Nuclear Disarmament, the Vietnam War, racism (the Bristol Bus boycott for instance) etc

School was stricter, exams were worse .........