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Friend never went swimming in the UK on fam hols

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mrsgreenfingers56 Sun 05-May-24 21:37:39

Chatting with a friend recently about childhood holidays. Went with their family to the Lincolnshire coast for many years but told me never went swimming. I was amazed as my family holidays in Wales at the coast we were never out of the sea, swimming, canoeing, splashing, paddling and having a great time (loved to squeal at the cold water!)

Anyone else never swam in the UK?

dogsmother Tue 07-May-24 13:36:51

Feel blessed to have been brought up in the CIs a stones throw from just one of the very accessible beautiful beaches. Was never out off the beach growing up. Now some continue to go year round but I don’t like the cold water so wait until it’s very warm usually late summer early evening high tide.

greenlady102 Tue 07-May-24 14:25:00

I never swam and in fact I can't swim. I did used to go wading abd rockpooling.

Labradora Tue 07-May-24 14:28:26

Never went swimming in the sea in the UK during childhood seaside days out in New Brighton and Blackpool. Did however have wonderful memorable family days out at the New Brighton Lido (New Brighton Baths as we called it!).
Baths were so great I think that was the reason we never bothered with the sea which I remember as being a bit muddy.
Also I wasn't keen on seaweed and the various large , harmless but horrible-looking jellyfish that scattered the beach.

pably15 Tue 07-May-24 14:31:26

when I was young my parents took me to the beach...14 miles away, picnics swiming sunbathing, when I had children of my own, we did the same,great times...

grandtanteJE65 Tue 07-May-24 15:55:24

Daddy did not swim, Mummy was a proficient swimmer but found the so-called summer weather of the west of Scotland far too cold to stay in the water long enough to teach us to swim.

She took us once to the public baths, but was so disgusted by the fact that you were allowed to swim without showering first, that she refused to takes us again, or allow us to take swimming lessons at school.

So no, no swimming on family holidays.

4allweknow Tue 07-May-24 15:56:31

Never went swimming on holiday as holidays were non existent only going to stay with an aunt 40 mikes away for a few days. I did go to the seaside where I lived as a child but only with friends and when an older brother (15 years older) was also on the beach. Played at swimming, eventually learning with lessons when an adult.

Amalegra Tue 07-May-24 16:33:57

I was brought up in Cornwall and loved to swim, cold water and all! The North Coast beaches were our favourite, Perranporth especially, and those breakers were exciting although you didn’t get much actual swimming done as they often knocked you off your feet! Some of the South Coast beaches were kinder but not nearly so exhilarating.

Stephania1954 Tue 07-May-24 16:40:41

I learnt to swim on a school holiday in the sea.
Still love to swim in the sea. I have also been swimming in lakes, rivers as well as the sea in various places around the world.

Harmonypuss Tue 07-May-24 16:45:26

Paddling yes, swimming no, not in the sea, but definitely in a chlorinated pool.

MissAdventure Tue 07-May-24 16:56:06

Amalegra

I was brought up in Cornwall and loved to swim, cold water and all! The North Coast beaches were our favourite, Perranporth especially, and those breakers were exciting although you didn’t get much actual swimming done as they often knocked you off your feet! Some of the South Coast beaches were kinder but not nearly so exhilarating.

Oh always spent all day in the water when we were on our hols, in Cornwall.

The waves were fabulous - they'd knock you clean off your feet and drag you under the foam.

Very exciting, trying not to drown. smile

Sallywally1 Tue 07-May-24 17:03:44

I used to love sea swimming when we occasionally went on holiday. Later as an adult I got caught in a current in Dorset which petrified me. I am a reasonable swimmer, but found it difficult to escape the current.

Nowadays I swim regularly in the local swimming baths, but I guess that’s not the same! Good for me though!

cc Tue 07-May-24 17:06:11

My grandchildren swim in the sea in Dorset regularly, however in the winter they wear wetsuits.

Labradora Tue 07-May-24 17:12:12

Miss Adventure and Amalegra,
I posted earlier re NOT swimming in the sea in New Brighton and Blackpool in my childhood.
Just identifying with the wave issues.
I've never swum off Cornwall but I swim in the sea in Biarritz in France , near where I am now and I can identify totally with being knocked clean off my feet.
A 71 year old woman crawling out of the sea on her hands and knees because the waves won't allow her to stand is NEVER a good look.........

PamelaJ1 Tue 07-May-24 17:22:57

Like Monica & CurtainT I was spoilt by lovely, warmer, seas.
We also had great outdoor swimming pools. Does the USRC mean anything to you Monica?
The only sea I’ve braved in the U.K. was when I walked across Morcambe Bay.

grannyro Tue 07-May-24 17:38:48

My sister, brother and I were raised in Broadstairs and spent all our time on the beach. However we never learnt to swim until we moved to London! Looking back it makes no sense!

Joseann Wed 08-May-24 07:29:05

I saw this picture and thought, "Actually, who does go to the beach to swim, especially 50 years ago?" I think more families at least strip off now! grin

Chocolatelovinggran Wed 08-May-24 07:48:24

I live by the sea now but have always lacked enthusiasm for anything other than paddling. I like my water warm. Cold water is for marine life.

M0nica Wed 08-May-24 09:01:18

Yes, PamelaJ, they do, I learned to swim there. There was a whole series of these clubs in different places, the Singapore Swimming Club and, in Kuala Lumpur, The Selangor Golf Club. Neither of my parents ever played golf but it had a wonderful swimming pool.

M0nica Wed 08-May-24 09:04:08

Joseann After studying your picture and how most people in it are well wrapped, I would suggest it is a traditional day on the beach in the UK, when it was just too darn cold to shed any layers and preferably one needs to add an extra layer.

Callistemon21 Wed 08-May-24 11:55:00

Joseann

I saw this picture and thought, "Actually, who does go to the beach to swim, especially 50 years ago?" I think more families at least strip off now! grin

Where is it?

And why are they faced away from the sea?

😁

Callistemon21 Wed 08-May-24 11:56:04

It's Southend 🙂

MissAdventure Wed 08-May-24 12:38:00

You can't beat a day at Saarfend! smile

SueDonim Wed 08-May-24 12:44:32

That would have been my dad at the beach, Joseann. If it was really hot, he might take his shoes off. grin He didn’t come to the beach often, didn’t like it. Mum would be in her swimsuit, though.

Joseann Wed 08-May-24 12:50:05

😁 😁
I don't know where the photo was taken, but the handbags and holdall also made me smile. Not a towel in sight. Maybe they were all on a day out?!

M0nica Wed 08-May-24 13:22:32

Passengers from a Mystery Destination Coach Tour.

No one mentioned that the mystery might end up beside the sea, so no one thought to bring suitable apparel for an afternoon on the beach.