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Trip report: my remote weekend experience...

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CanadianGran Mon 06-May-24 20:56:57

I just thought I would tell you all about our weekend, since it was such a unique experience for me. Our eldest son and family recently purchased a remote off-grid cabin and 66 acres in north/central British Columbia. He went with my DH in March to inspect, receive keys etc, so DH has spent a weekend there already. I went with DH on Thursday and returned yesterday.

The drive is about 6.5 hours from our house, and involves a ferry ride across a lake. The paved roads end for the last 20 minutes, so gravel roads through mostly cattle ranch land and forest, some of which had burnt in a large forest fire in 2018. This area is on a high plateau; spring comes late and there were not really signs of spring. Trees were still leafless, and grassland was brown still. Pockets of old snow were in shaded areas.

We arrived and after unlocking the gate, drove down the long wooded drive to see a log cabin on the edge of the forest, with open grassland and a lake beyond. The property is half forest, consisting of mostly spruce, pine, hemlock and (I think) aspen. The grassland is mowed for hay by a nearby rancher. The forest on the opposite bank of the lake looks desolate, since it burned in the fire. It is just blackened tree trunks, but I'm hoping it will show green undergrowth when the spring really starts there.

We opened up the cabin, which is about 20' x 30', two stories and has a front porch. The interior is one large room, with raw log walls, a central propane heater, kitchen area well equipped with cupboards, sink, propane stove and fridge. We didn't get the fridge started, apparently there is an issue with it. We kept all our cool food outside on the porch in hard sided coolers.

Upstairs, or up a ladder, really, are two large bedrooms, one with a queen bed, designated as the guest room, and the front room with a queen and two singles, with a nice bay window overlooking the lake. The front room had two closets, one which held a porta-pottie. Details on that at some other time... no indoor toilet!

DH turned on the propane, and we lit the stove for warmth. I settled in to explore. There were signs of mice in the upstairs closets built under the eaves, and in one corner of the kitchen. My son has a bearskin rug that our dog did not at all like, so I rolled it up and put it up in their room. The ladder up was too steep for the dog, so we set up her bed in the corner, which satisfied her.

We had two full days there, many hours were spent cleaning for me, and for DH, sorting out the shed and outbuildings. There is quite a bit of gear needed for off-grid living! We did get a chance to meet the neighbours, at a farm just south of the property. When we walked over, the husband (around 70, was milling logs with his own mill, and the wife had just finished making doughnuts, so we had a nice visit. They showed us their holding, 3 horses, greenhouse, garden etc.

Both days I walked the property, though a path in the woods, along the far fence line, and back through the grass field along the lake, which has a very steep bank and is not that easily accessible. There were signs of moose, bear and wolf. I did carry a a walking stick and had my dog, but will buy some bear spray for safety. On the lake were ducks, geese, and the woods were full of birdsong.

We headed home Sunday tired from physical work, but mentally refreshed. We will go up again for Victoria Day long weekend with DS and family, but I admit it is a long way to go, and while my DH loves it, I can't see myself spending more than a few days at time so remotely. It does give me appreciation for all those pioneering people that came before us to settle this large country.

Thanks for reading if you have stayed the course.

AreWeThereYet Wed 08-May-24 14:19:16

Sounds brilliant - although very hard work. I am green with envy - if I had my way I would live somewhere like that. MrA on the other hand likes his luxuries and I would have to drag him kicking and screaming somewhere like that for more than a day or two. I can't even get him to stay a week on one of the remote Scottish islands. He likes people around whereas I'm happy to see people occasionally but entirely self-sufficient most of the time.

MissAdventure Wed 08-May-24 14:22:57

Absolutely glorious!
I really wish I had done this kind of thing when I was younger.

I'd love remote living.

CanadianGran Wed 08-May-24 16:42:21

In defense of hunting, which I know is controversial; hunting and fishing is a way of life for many here in the north. I am not a hunter, but members of my family are. Bear, moose, deer and grouse hunts are heavily controlled by licenses and tags, and managed by the provincial government. Applications for a hunt are made in advance, and all kills reported in order for species control and information.

I particularly don't like bear meat, but the whole bear was used by my son's family. No one in my family is a 'trophy hunter', which to me is horrible. Black bears are by no means endangered here, there are many of them, and in fact can kill young cattle and sheep in farming areas.

When we met the neighbours, they said they were off the next weekend to a 'branding', and it would be a lot of fun. I was a bit horrified, but I guess calves around the area are allowed free range on public lands, and are branded to identify the farm to which they belong. Is this another cruel practice, or the price to be paid for a year of freedom before slaughter?

I admit to eating meat, whether it is raised in a barn never to see the light of day, or occasionally meat that has been raised in the wilderness in it's home environment.

I did not mean to offend while mentioning the bear, but did want to give a different perspective when someone brought it up.

Urmstongran Wed 08-May-24 16:50:59

Not for me either I’m afraid (although I did enjoy reading about it). I have had health anxiety issues for years. Being in a remote area would stress me out.

Hiraeth Wed 08-May-24 18:46:41

Beautiful, Canadiangran!.
2019 i flew to Calgary , hired a car and drove over 3000 km to Vancouver island . Breathtaking scenery on the whole journey . So pristine . I envy you living in such a beautiful country .

Beechnut Wed 08-May-24 19:03:35

Interesting Canadiangran. I enjoyed reading and would like to read of your future trips. Dh would have like this and while I would like to experience something similar maybe something closer to civilisation….

Mizuna Thu 09-May-24 06:43:16

I loved reading this. It smacked of adventure, something I've lost temporarily due to awaiting an operation. But I plan to go places again later in the year, maybe not so remote as that cabin nor involving bears, but certainly somewhere that will test me. A while back I rented a garage to store all my wordly goods, gave up the lease on my flat and lived in a van for one summer, semi off-grid. I had a stand pipe nearby but that was all. It was the best experience ever and I felt so alive. Thank you again, reading this has been like a breath of fresh air.

BlueBelle Thu 09-May-24 07:35:18

You didn’t offend me Canadagran I just can’t bear (excuse the pun) killing of animals unless absolutely necessary, of course if it’s you or the bear, I understand that, but to kill for a skin or a trophy, and I know you explained it wasn’t trophy hunting, but you didn’t say it was his life and you did say they were walking on it on the floor, which I m sorry to argue but it is a trophy
I think for some people a remote life is what they need and yes for a week it would be a lovely novelty, but i need people, I need to chat, share ideas, people watch so for me it would be a nightmare but it was a lovely written piece by you so don’t take my views as too negative

Amalegra Thu 09-May-24 11:32:09

I grew up living in a caravan for ten years due to various family problems I won’t go into here. No indoor sanitation, no running water-after six years we got a cold water tap, oh joy!- limited cooking facilities, no fridge, washing machine etc. Lack of privacy was a problem as part of the living area had to be ‘converted’ every night into our sleeping area.(It was a long, long time ago!). Mostly I hated it as previously we had lived in a nice house with all mod cons for the time. We did live in a beautiful rural area though, which compensated to a degree. I don’t know how my poor mother managed! I have been camping with my children when young and tolerated it because they loved it. I found it tough as everything was up to me to do, my husband being no help whatsoever, and it was certainly not relaxing! Now I will never camp or caravan again. I have no one to persuade me otherwise, being single. While I can’t often afford a luxury hotel, I do insist on some small degree of comfort!

TanaMa Thu 09-May-24 12:50:47

Have had some lovely 'adventures' in Canada - one that was special was horse riding with a couple of 'Indian braves' in a wilderness park. Whatever pastime you were engaged in, you had to sign an indemnity as there was much wild life, including bears. I was told we had to talk or sing so the bears knew humans were around. Looking at the tree trunks that bears had used as scratching posts, made me aware of just how big they were when standing upright!!
Driving from Vancouver up to Yellow Knife we met Moose in the middle of the road and fed it choc biscuits. Stopping at a picnic site we made a quick exit when a baby bear came sniffing round - Mamma bear was not far behind!!

Mojack26 Thu 09-May-24 13:10:01

Sounds like my kind of place, for a few days week at most.....how fabulous! Total recharge...😄

11unicorn Thu 09-May-24 13:29:55

oh it looks amazing, and it seems you have fabulous neighbors up there. Lack of indoor toilet would be an issue for me but it sounds an amazing place to get away from everything for a few days at a time.

Witzend Thu 09-May-24 13:53:47

Sounds really lovely - I’m sure I’d have enjoyed it before the stage when I’m up and down to the loo at least twice a night! I do need my ensuite nowadays - or at least a loo on the same floor.

GrannaKaye Thu 09-May-24 14:59:45

Another Canadian here, Albertan. We frequently drive to the coast and love the scenery along the way. I know that you are nowhere near those highways but I recognized the pictures right away as Canadian landscape and sky. What you have described sounds idyllic...for the couple of days that you were there. Lots of cleaning and organizing somewhere new can be so fun, especially when you're knocked down tired at the end of the day and finish it off with a quiet night in total darkness. Bathroom situation would not be my choice...would rather go outside in the woods!

Juicylucy Thu 09-May-24 15:21:13

Wow that looks like my kind of heaven. How beautiful 🌸

Anniel Mon 13-May-24 15:10:38

What a great read. Canadiangran I have only ever visited Ontario for a short stay but your piece brought home the remoteness of large areas. Thank you for giving us a glimpse into life in the wilds

DanniRae Tue 14-May-24 08:17:21

Really loved reading this but really wouldn't want to live it.

(And I could have cried when I read about the bear sad)