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My 4mo grandson cries relentlessly

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Jewelrnca Tue 14-May-24 23:55:46

I watch my 4 month old grandson once/week from 8a-6p. Since he was born he has been colicky and only “catnaps “ for about 20 min 3X/day. Otherwise he’s crying or feeding. He takes the bottle fine even though he’s breastfed. I’m at my wit’s end even though I raised 3 kids w/o any problems. Today he cried for 4 hrs straights except for the 20 minutes while taking a bottle. I walk holding him, I rock him. I pat him. I do everything I can think of yet he howls. He doesn’t cry with my husband and when my husband came home from work today, I started crying saying that my 64yo nerves can’t handle this. I’m a trauma RN so I’m used to chaos and stress but this is doing me in. I don’t tell my daughter or son-in-law for fear of upsetting them but I’m seriously considering stopping. They don’t let him cry which means they keep him in a swaddle to their chest, bounce on exercise balls, continuously interact and entertain him. HELP!

Germanshepherdsmum Thu 16-May-24 18:25:40

As is so often the case, the OP hasn’t returned ,,.

aggie Thu 16-May-24 18:58:37

My Daughter had to go on a dairy free diet to be able to breast feed her middle child , she has multiple allergies, but has grown out of most of the.

Sallywally1 Sun 19-May-24 19:26:18

I say this gently, but if this were my baby being looked after I would expect to be told what is going on. He is their child and they may need to have him checked out. I am sure you are doing your best, but the parents would be more upset if they feel things are being held from them.

Germanshepherdsmum Sun 19-May-24 19:27:21

I absolutely agree.

NotSpaghetti Mon 20-May-24 00:18:21

But if they don't do it at home and don't do it with the grandfather the problem is grandmother...
She was looking for ideas..

Purplepixie Mon 20-May-24 00:19:59

My daughter had evening colic for the first few months and it just disappeared after a while. It was a case of pacing the floor.