How fascinating.
Have you got to this stage of life ?
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After reading the Anaesthetic thread, this reminded me of my worst fearā¦..I have this dread of being in my coffin and still being aware of whatās happening. I donāt mean being pronounced dead by mistakeā¦..
How fascinating.
Rigor mortis appears approximately 2 hours after death in the muscles of the face, progresses to the limbs over the next few hours, completing between 6 to 8 hours after death. [10] Rigor mortis then stays for another 12 hours (till 24 hours after death) and then disappears.(Googled)
It seldom happens that a body is discovered after the period of rigor mortis , by which time. there will be other signs of permanent death.
flappergirl
Germanshepherdsmum
I have posted before that I have a small snapshot of a previous life.
Itās interesting that when an exorcism takes place the spirit is told that it has died and may now depart, which seems to work. Maybe some donāt know that they have died and need permission to pass into the next world. Who knows? I have an open mind but I also have a firm belief in life after death.That's so interesting GSM. I've missed your previous posts but would you be willing to share your snapshot. I also believe in life after death and I have reasons to do so.
Could we start a thread about this.
I don't have anything to contribute but I find the whole area of Life after Death/Reincarnation very interesting.
There have been many reports of children talking about a past life. They seem to 'forget' by the time they reach 5 or 6.
I find it all fascinating.
I would be very interested to hear experiences or anecdotes from others.
I do worry that my āconsciousnessā will still be there when I am dead. I used to work with someone who studied consciousness and thatās what got me worried about it.
I think the answer is that we will never know that weāre dead, consciousness being gone completely.So donāt fret about it.
Anyone interested in this topic might like to read āLincoln in the Bardoā. Itās a very strange book, but well worth persevering with. The premise is that some people who have physically died, donāt believe it and are in limbo.
Thus a priest carrying out an exorcism tells them they are now free to leave.
Visgir1
From my Professional Heath Care perspective, having had to deactivate many Implantable Defibrillator's within a large Hospital Mortuary, when your Dead your defiantly dead, no doubt.
Iāll definitely be defiantly dead!š
MissInterpreted
Germanshepherdsmum
The mother of one of my colleagues had stipulated that if she was pronounced dead her arteries must be cut in his presence. He honoured her wish. Thankfully she was indeed dead.
That was actually not uncommon. Many people used to state in their wills that they wanted a main artery to be cut before they were buried to avoid the prospect of being buried alive.
I have told all my family ( and our local undertaker) that I must be embalmed, so that will make sure Iām away up!
Honestly, I cannot take this seriously.
Do none of you know the procedure that must be followed both by the attending physician who writes the death certificate and by the hospital staff and the undertaker?
Perhaps you should look into it, so you can stop worrying about something that is exceedingly unlikely to happen.
Caleo
Some people lose their sense of self while still alive e.g. during dementia. The sense of self is even absent in some dream states. The sense of self can't survive permanent brain death, therefor if these is life after death it is not life as we know it as selves.
Indeed Caleo. āSense of selfā can also change after brain injury, and neuroscience has shown that near death experiences, which have been described when someone has needed resuscitation when their heart has stopped, are not āpassing to another lifeā but the brain shutting down.
Most paranormal stuff can be explained by contemporary neuroscience.
After my first husband died I had quite a few episodes of feeling very big and heavy (hard to describe) and trying very hard to climb out of my earthly body. Weird I know, but it did happen.
This is a cheerful start to my day.
Personally I think when you die there is nothing else. However, not really knowing the answer I'm prepared to listen to the theory that though the body ceases to function the soul lives on and is transferred into it's next body. It may be a shock at first but having no previous memory the lives on.
Donāt worry about it, they cut your garroted artery to ensure that you are dead. Not nice but at least you canāt be buried alive
As far as I am aware in this country once youāre declared dead all your bodily fluids are drained and some sort of preservative is pumped in so that even if your funeral is 3 weeks away you wonāt start to disintegrate. I would be far more worried if I were Jewish or Muslim as I think their faiths demand burial with a day or so of death.
So, you are aware of what is going on but not able to move, bat an eyelid, breathe,no pulse and been declared dead you are basically a mind in a dead body. Think I may have to become religious to try and figure that out. Or change my name to Jesus!
Spinnaker
Just in case I'm having a mobile phone put in with me just before the lid goes on
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That reminds me of the film Mr Harrigan's Phone. Not so good for the recipients of the texts from the grave.
Marydoll
baubles
Does it happen? š±
Years ago I read of a case in South America. The elderly woman was in a deep coma, then noises were heard from her coffin. She died soon after the coffin was opened.
I think in poorer countries that could happen, but I don't think it could happen here, given the medical expertise here.
Not in this country, no! They just keep your body in for months after your family think you've been cremated! Whatever happened to that story?
Hence the expression saved by the bell!
Karmalady, thank you for that
I am with you
If you have seen a dead person then you know what death looks like and its not pretty . I have watched 3 people die and seen 2 dead bodies hours after they died.
Once dead unless they do CPR then you are gone. Even with CPR there is no guarantee you will live.
Best friend did CPR on her husband until the paramedics arrived and they worked on him for 20 mins . She lost track how many shocks they gave him. But she knew he was dead even when she did CPR.
To be honest when I died that's it no CPR. Those that have loved ones with dementia or Alzheimer's know that they die long before their bodies . It's quality of life not quantity that's important.
So why worry about whether or not you are dead. If worried then leave instructions that they stick a big needle or scalpel into your arm.
Frightens the heck out of me, waking up when I am in the crem furnace. I used to work for a Will company and you could have a clause put in to have your wrists slashed so if you weren't dead you would soon die from blood loss. Creepy. Let's not try to think of that.
Poppyred
What I meant was, what if we are still aware of whatās going on even if we are dead? š±
My dad always said that it can't be too bad as nobody has ever come back!
Mind you he also said that he's let me know if he could and he never has ...
Be comforted, once you are dead, you do 'look dead', there is no doubt, but you could stipulate the bell in the coffin like the Victorians did?
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