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Poppyred Sun 19-May-24 06:52:21

After reading the Anaesthetic thread, this reminded me of my worst fear…..I have this dread of being in my coffin and still being aware of what’s happening. I don’t mean being pronounced dead by mistake…..

Germanshepherdsmum Mon 20-May-24 10:24:08

How fascinating.

Caleo Mon 20-May-24 10:24:45

Rigor mortis appears approximately 2 hours after death in the muscles of the face, progresses to the limbs over the next few hours, completing between 6 to 8 hours after death. [10] Rigor mortis then stays for another 12 hours (till 24 hours after death) and then disappears.(Googled)

It seldom happens that a body is discovered after the period of rigor mortis , by which time. there will be other signs of permanent death.

PinkCosmos Mon 20-May-24 11:21:55

flappergirl

Germanshepherdsmum

I have posted before that I have a small snapshot of a previous life.

It’s interesting that when an exorcism takes place the spirit is told that it has died and may now depart, which seems to work. Maybe some don’t know that they have died and need permission to pass into the next world. Who knows? I have an open mind but I also have a firm belief in life after death.

That's so interesting GSM. I've missed your previous posts but would you be willing to share your snapshot. I also believe in life after death and I have reasons to do so.

Could we start a thread about this.

I don't have anything to contribute but I find the whole area of Life after Death/Reincarnation very interesting.

There have been many reports of children talking about a past life. They seem to 'forget' by the time they reach 5 or 6.

I find it all fascinating.

Germanshepherdsmum Mon 20-May-24 11:24:05

I would be very interested to hear experiences or anecdotes from others.

MayBee70 Mon 20-May-24 13:17:06

I do worry that my ā€˜consciousness’ will still be there when I am dead. I used to work with someone who studied consciousness and that’s what got me worried about it.

Oreo Mon 20-May-24 13:41:04

I think the answer is that we will never know that we’re dead, consciousness being gone completely.So don’t fret about it.

Soroptimum Mon 20-May-24 13:49:55

Anyone interested in this topic might like to read ā€˜Lincoln in the Bardo’. It’s a very strange book, but well worth persevering with. The premise is that some people who have physically died, don’t believe it and are in limbo.

Germanshepherdsmum Mon 20-May-24 13:59:19

Thus a priest carrying out an exorcism tells them they are now free to leave.

hollysteers Mon 20-May-24 14:38:03

Visgir1

From my Professional Heath Care perspective, having had to deactivate many Implantable Defibrillator's within a large Hospital Mortuary, when your Dead your defiantly dead, no doubt.

I’ll definitely be defiantly dead!😁

Daddima Mon 20-May-24 15:17:38

MissInterpreted

Germanshepherdsmum

The mother of one of my colleagues had stipulated that if she was pronounced dead her arteries must be cut in his presence. He honoured her wish. Thankfully she was indeed dead.

That was actually not uncommon. Many people used to state in their wills that they wanted a main artery to be cut before they were buried to avoid the prospect of being buried alive.

I have told all my family ( and our local undertaker) that I must be embalmed, so that will make sure I’m away up!

grandtanteJE65 Mon 20-May-24 15:53:07

Honestly, I cannot take this seriously.

Do none of you know the procedure that must be followed both by the attending physician who writes the death certificate and by the hospital staff and the undertaker?

Perhaps you should look into it, so you can stop worrying about something that is exceedingly unlikely to happen.

Farzanah Mon 20-May-24 15:53:14

Caleo

Some people lose their sense of self while still alive e.g. during dementia. The sense of self is even absent in some dream states. The sense of self can't survive permanent brain death, therefor if these is life after death it is not life as we know it as selves.

Indeed Caleo. ā€œSense of selfā€ can also change after brain injury, and neuroscience has shown that near death experiences, which have been described when someone has needed resuscitation when their heart has stopped, are not ā€œpassing to another lifeā€ but the brain shutting down.

Most paranormal stuff can be explained by contemporary neuroscience.

Poppyred Mon 20-May-24 16:31:22

After my first husband died I had quite a few episodes of feeling very big and heavy (hard to describe) and trying very hard to climb out of my earthly body. Weird I know, but it did happen.

sarahcyn Tue 21-May-24 11:18:59

This is a cheerful start to my day.

Rondetto Tue 21-May-24 11:24:31

Personally I think when you die there is nothing else. However, not really knowing the answer I'm prepared to listen to the theory that though the body ceases to function the soul lives on and is transferred into it's next body. It may be a shock at first but having no previous memory the lives on.

NanaSoo Tue 21-May-24 11:29:24

Don’t worry about it, they cut your garroted artery to ensure that you are dead. Not nice but at least you can’t be buried alive

Cagsy Tue 21-May-24 11:35:50

As far as I am aware in this country once you’re declared dead all your bodily fluids are drained and some sort of preservative is pumped in so that even if your funeral is 3 weeks away you won’t start to disintegrate. I would be far more worried if I were Jewish or Muslim as I think their faiths demand burial with a day or so of death.

4allweknow Tue 21-May-24 11:40:58

So, you are aware of what is going on but not able to move, bat an eyelid, breathe,no pulse and been declared dead you are basically a mind in a dead body. Think I may have to become religious to try and figure that out. Or change my name to Jesus!

missdeke Tue 21-May-24 11:42:09

Spinnaker

Just in case I'm having a mobile phone put in with me just before the lid goes on
grin grin

That reminds me of the film Mr Harrigan's Phone. Not so good for the recipients of the texts from the grave.

orly Tue 21-May-24 11:51:21

Marydoll

baubles

Does it happen? 😱

Years ago I read of a case in South America. The elderly woman was in a deep coma, then noises were heard from her coffin. She died soon after the coffin was opened.

I think in poorer countries that could happen, but I don't think it could happen here, given the medical expertise here.

Not in this country, no! They just keep your body in for months after your family think you've been cremated! Whatever happened to that story?

ranorman45 Tue 21-May-24 11:52:08

Hence the expression saved by the bell!

undines Tue 21-May-24 12:01:37

Karmalady, thank you for that
I am with you

Whiff Tue 21-May-24 12:06:03

If you have seen a dead person then you know what death looks like and its not pretty . I have watched 3 people die and seen 2 dead bodies hours after they died.
Once dead unless they do CPR then you are gone. Even with CPR there is no guarantee you will live.
Best friend did CPR on her husband until the paramedics arrived and they worked on him for 20 mins . She lost track how many shocks they gave him. But she knew he was dead even when she did CPR.

To be honest when I died that's it no CPR. Those that have loved ones with dementia or Alzheimer's know that they die long before their bodies . It's quality of life not quantity that's important.

So why worry about whether or not you are dead. If worried then leave instructions that they stick a big needle or scalpel into your arm.

PoemPoet107 Tue 21-May-24 12:08:08

Frightens the heck out of me, waking up when I am in the crem furnace. I used to work for a Will company and you could have a clause put in to have your wrists slashed so if you weren't dead you would soon die from blood loss. Creepy. Let's not try to think of that.

MadeInYorkshire Tue 21-May-24 12:17:06

Poppyred

What I meant was, what if we are still aware of what’s going on even if we are dead? 😱

My dad always said that it can't be too bad as nobody has ever come back!

Mind you he also said that he's let me know if he could and he never has ...

Be comforted, once you are dead, you do 'look dead', there is no doubt, but you could stipulate the bell in the coffin like the Victorians did?