Being youngest sibling of elders in their 80s

Like GSM I’m an only child, so we seem to grow up fairly independent. Sometimes if a friend offers to help, I’ll thank them, but often turn down the offer. I do help them though.

I really wish I could answer that. You have been there for everyone and it must be heartbreaking to find that nobody is there for you. Have you tried Age UK or a local charity which offers friendship and support to older people?

Very sad Bea65 but I would ask if you actually need physical/emotional support or just feeling a bit down, especially with your DD heading West.

Have you asked any of the friends you’ve helped in the past to help you - perhaps they need more of a nudge in that direction? I prefer to attend medical/legal appointments on my own, but that’s just me.

You’ll definitely get emotional support here on Gransnet.

I attend medical appts.on my own...I can't surely be the only Senior Citizen who has no-one accompanying them - have always supported friends and now realise this is not reciprocated as many are older, who do i turn to for support?

I’m so sorry. I only have one child too and can’t imagine your distress. In your position I would feel rather bitter towards my siblings (I imagine, as I have never had any). You are perfectly entitled to feel as you do. Is there anyone else who you can call upon?

GSM yes have a daughter who is relocating to US for job promotion in few months, am pleased for my daughter but crying inside as will miss her presence so much

I’m sorry Bea. Do you have any other family?