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What if we'd had to do National Service?

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Glorianny Wed 05-Jun-24 20:36:28

My older brother just missed out on having to do NS. But I was wondering if we had had to do it, and had a choice, as Sunak seems to be saying they will offer young people, what would I have done? I was an even more passionate pacifist then so the forces would have been out. I don't think the NHS would have benefitted from my rather incompetent abilities and wouldn't have liked my ability to break things. I suppose I might have helped with children, but couldn't have handled any real problems.
If you'd had to do it what would you have done and did you have skills at that age that would have been useful?

LauraNorderr Wed 05-Jun-24 20:45:54

I’d have wanted to travel and to help. Building a school in a deprived area of Africa, clearing up in a flood relief situation or after an earthquake somewhere in the world.
One of my sons, an engineer, has had a career as a disaster relief manager. Very rewarding.

Aveline Wed 05-Jun-24 21:03:08

I like the RVS. They provided practical necessary jobs that really contributed to the home front and beyond. They still provide practical activities that help the community in a whole host of ways. I'd join them

M0nica Wed 05-Jun-24 21:22:39

As an army brat, army life would have suited me, but as I would have failed the eyesight test, I would have had to do civilian service.

However, as I went to university, my National Service could have been deferred and I would have done it after I had graduated. Like Aveline WRVS would probably be where I chose to go, assuming I was given a choice.

heath480 Wed 05-Jun-24 21:39:59

I served in the Army as a Nursing Officer,I would do it again in a heartbeat if I was young enough.

Siope Wed 05-Jun-24 22:11:27

Pre 18, I had experience volunteering in youth work and with older people with multiple disabilities.

At a little older than 18, I was a full-time Community Service Volunteer www.voluntaryworker.co.uk/community-service-volunteers.html working with young people in the criminal justice system in England.

And shortly after that, I volunteered with Voluntary Service Overseas www.vsointernational.org/our-work ,
parlaying an early career on the dark side (private financial institutions) into useful finance and business education.

So I guess I’d have done just what I did really.

merlotgran Wed 05-Jun-24 22:15:17

I was an RAF brat so would have probably gravitated towards signals. My father taught me Morse code when I was nine! 😂

At nineteen I was a secretary for Plessey Radar so there wouldn’t have been much point in doing NS. I was already doing it! 😂

MiniMoon Wed 05-Jun-24 22:24:59

I would have done Army service. I wanted to join up at 21 but I was considered underweight. I was asked to come back when I'd put on a stone. That didn't happen until I had my first child. By then I'd qualified as a mental health nurse.

BigBertha1 Wed 05-Jun-24 22:45:01

I wanted to go in the navy to train as a nurse but my mother wouldn't hear of it as my brother had just joined the navy. I trained as a nurse anyway a bit later and always regretted ignoring her and doing it anyway.

keepingquiet Wed 05-Jun-24 23:42:30

I wanted to do VSO when I finished my nurse training, but then they wanted me to do midwifery training.

Even now when wanting to do volunteering they keep moving goalposts...

Grantanow Wed 05-Jun-24 23:54:27

I think it would have been a waste of my time.

OldFrill Thu 06-Jun-24 00:41:01

It may have helped me escape.

Pantglas2 Thu 06-Jun-24 06:31:29

My brothers and I lost our mother as children and grew up to fend for ourselves a lot whilst Dad was at work but we were pretty disciplined anyway.

We all had weekend/evening lowly jobs in hospitality from 14 onwards so I suspect we would have signed up to anything offered and made a good fist of things, it’s how we were reared.

Dads motto was ‘no such thing as a menial task, just a job done well’ and it’s served us all well over the years - none of us was ever unemployed and all found work we enjoyed and suited our skill sets.

This came from trying lots of different stuff in our teenage age years, something not to be sneezed at I think.

Greyduster Thu 06-Jun-24 07:26:34

I joined the Army at seventeen and a half and only left to get married. Military life suited me. If I could do that again but with the skills and experience I have now, I would do it in a heartbeat.

tanith Thu 06-Jun-24 08:41:58

I worked in the NHS for 20 yrs so I’d probably of done something similar.

Mollygo Thu 06-Jun-24 10:10:00

We had VSO. A 3 week crash course at University then off to Sumatra. Involved working with the local community in various ways, needing a painful injection after being bitten by a dog (they have rabies out there).

Germanshepherdsmum Thu 06-Jun-24 10:12:26

It might have saved me from a horrible marriage. It would, I hope, have opened my eyes.

halfpint1 Thu 06-Jun-24 10:17:57

I did 4 years in the Airforce. Loved it.

Jaxjacky Thu 06-Jun-24 10:29:36

I think the discipline would’ve done me good, I was slightly wayward!

AGAA4 Thu 06-Jun-24 11:27:00

I wanted to train as a nurse and join the Alexandra Nurses but I had too much opposition from my parents.
When my DD told me she wanted to train as a nurse I gave her all the support I could to do what she felt was the right choice for her.

Nannashirlz Thu 06-Jun-24 11:42:22

As an ex raf brat and an ex army wife and a mum and mum inlaw to two vets I think I’ve done my bit lol I think it would do the younger ones some pride in the country instead of expecting everything given to them on a plate

Glorianny Thu 06-Jun-24 12:47:30

Jaxjacky

I think the discipline would’ve done me good, I was slightly wayward!

Oh thanks Jaxjacky-so was I (wayward). But I didn't respond well to authority either so goodness knows what might have happened.
I was beginning to think everyone else was a pillar of the community at 18.

NonnaW Thu 06-Jun-24 13:10:47

I joined the WRAF at 17, did just short of 4 years, leaving on marriage

mae13 Thu 06-Jun-24 15:45:15

After you, Rishi. A leader's example is needed.

Astitchintime Thu 06-Jun-24 15:54:28

In my very early teens I told an aunt that I wanted to join the Royal Army Nursing Corps - she hastily told me that "they don't have people who wear spectacles". Naturally, I took her at her word, I don't know whether she was right or wrong but wish I had enquired - life could have been so different.......hmm