Hi all,
Apologies for not having seen these issues sooner and for interrupting your thread as it gets back on track.
Firstly, thanks to the one poster who flagged up that there has been some consternation over the deletion of Urmstongran's post.
As you know, we are a peer-moderated site and rely on users to get in touch. Had Urmstongran queried the deletion with us, we could easily have explained why we removed her post, and still can.
Candidly, to us the post did not read as supportive, and we do not intend to reinstate it but we are aware that the deletion has led to a great deal of derailing and bad feeling on what is otherwise a famously lovely thread and we are very sorry about that.
We can see that there are several posts suggesting that the act of reporting is somehow "sneaky etc" and we do need to underline with you all that this is simply not the case.
GNHQ very much needs you all as willing eyes and ears to help us keep the site running smoothly, and we can reassure you the decision as to what posts must go lies with GNHQ and GNHQ alone. The act of reporting simply flags up potential problems, it is we who take action.
We would like to apologise for not having known this derailing of such a good-hearted thread was taking place, and we will now tidy it up and get back to wishing YiaYia4's DH all the very best with his ongoing health issues.
