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maddyone Sat 22-Jun-24 16:47:51

I’ve just made our Golden Wedding cake and put it in the oven. It’s a rich fruit cake, aka Christmas cake, because my husband loves rich fruit cake. I’m toying with the idea of also making a Madeira cake the week before, because some of the younger members of the family prefer sponge cake. The fruit cake is really for my husband. The date is 10/08/24 so the cake will have plenty of time to mature and be fed with a lot bit of brandy.

I can hardly believe it. Fifty years and three children and four grandchildren later, and despite some ups and downs, we’re still together. I’ve booked The Ivy for lunch on the day and then we’ll come back here for cake and champagne.

We celebrated early in January too, with our daughter and three grandchildren, whilst we were out in New Zealand, visiting them. We went to a nice, old fashioned hotel for a lovely afternoon tea, and we had a cake and a bottle of NZ sparkling wine (which was very nice) and a bottle of fizzy grape juice for the children.

My only regret is that my parents are no longer alive and will be missed on the day, and my parents in law too. We’ve lost three of them in the last couple of years and I lost my dad some eight years ago now. They were always at every family celebration and occasion for so many years, marriages, Christenings, Christmas, graduation ceremonies, our significant wedding anniversaries, the last being our Ruby, when they were all there. They will be missed but not forgotten.

At the end of August, we’re going on a Golden Wedding trip to the Galapagos, which I’m really looking forward to. A week cruising the different islands, with all excursions included. Guided walks with experts, swimming, snorkelling which I shall definitely avoid
which I must try as I’ve never tried before, small boat rides to see the wildlife up close. It all sounds exciting and I’m looking forward to it.

How have you celebrated any of your special anniversaries?

Oreo Sat 22-Jun-24 16:55:43

Congratulations on your upcoming Golden Anniversary!
It’s quite something isn’t it, 50 years married🥂🍾🎂 hope your celebrations go well with the family and that you have a fabulous holiday.
Having seen nature programmes on the Galapagos it looks an interesting and memorable place to visit.Have a go at snorkelling and tell us about it.

maddyone Sat 22-Jun-24 17:04:21

Thank you Oreo, I’ll be sure to report back on the Galápagos.

This is us on the day we celebrated in New Zealand. Unfortunately MrM’s eyes are closed, but all the other photos we have have got our daughter and grandchildren on.

V3ra Sat 22-Jun-24 17:04:56

That all sounds lovely Maddyone 🥰

For our 30th anniversary we took our three adult children, one son-in-law, one girlfriend and my mother-in-law to the Algarve for a week, in two self-catering apartments.

For our 40th anniversary we took them to Tenerife: three adult children, son-in-law now replaced by partner plus granddaughter, different girlfriend.

Three years to go to our 50th!
Fingers crossed the current line-up of family members, same partner plus now two grandchildren, new girlfriend and new daughter-in-law will all be coming 🤞

maddyone Sat 22-Jun-24 17:05:35

Actually his eyes aren’t closed are they? It must be the one of us that our daughter took where he had his eyes shut.

Oreo Sat 22-Jun-24 17:10:01

Lovely floral sundress you’re wearing, a nice happy pic.Unless somebody takes a really quick photo I always end up squinting into the lens.

V3ra Sat 22-Jun-24 17:10:26

What a lovely photo!
MrM's eyes are open as I see him 👀

Chocolatelovinggran Sat 22-Jun-24 17:12:36

Many congratulations to you and MrM maddyone. What a great achievement.

J52 Sat 22-Jun-24 17:13:17

Congratulations, it’s ours in August as well. We have a small family on both sides, so having a special lunch at an Italian restaurant and then in the evening drinks in the garden.
We had a big trip to Asia last Autumn so haven’t quite decided on where we’ll be going later in the year, must fit round son and DILs special birthdays as well.
Enjoy the Galapagos, sounds wonderful.

Scribbles Sat 22-Jun-24 17:31:31

Congratulations! Have a lovely day, sharing lovely food and happy reminiscences.
My husband died before we'd made it to 50 years and he wasn't a great celebrator of anniversaries ("it's just a day!") but for our 25th, we returned to Bridgnorth where we'd spent part of our honeymoon and had a wonderful time on the Severn Valley Railway which we'd visited for the first time - first of many - during the honeymoon.
For our 45th, we spent the day with close friends and had a celebratory lunch together and a couple of nights in a good hotel.

Germanshepherdsmum Sat 22-Jun-24 18:05:02

We are not likely to live to see our golden anniversary and neither of us realised it was our silver anniversary until the following year when we did the maths! However we are not ones for big celebrations so it didn’t matter. We just celebrate each day for what it brings.

Congratulations to you though!

GrannyGravy13 Sat 22-Jun-24 18:09:58

Congratulations maddyone

Like GSM I doubt if we will see our Golden Wedding, we had children, house and business first getting married was a bit of an afterthought

We are not far of 50 years together though.

crazyH Sat 22-Jun-24 18:10:02

Congratulations Mr&Mrs maddyone - enjoy your day !

Luckygirl3 Sat 22-Jun-24 18:10:23

It is lovely to read your wonderful plans.

We nearly made it - OH died in the February - our golden was in August.

But we had some lovely celebrations of other major anniversaries. We had a lovely ceilidh with a live band for silver. For the Ruby we went to a lovely old manor house and everyone donned wellies with their glad rags and we went for a walk across the fields; then back to the small bard where we all shared a meal accompanied by a live classical guitarist.

Lovely celebrations to look back on.

I hope yours goes well.

Luckygirl3 Sat 22-Jun-24 18:11:00

bard?? - barn.

Lovemylife Sat 22-Jun-24 18:28:22

Congratulations to you, and hope you enjoy the Galápagos Islands. Sounds fabulous.

Not sure whether we’ll live long enough to get to Golden. It’s our Silver next month and OH is poorly at the moment and probably won’t even notice. Hoping we can celebrate later in the year when he’s more himself.

kittylester Sat 22-Jun-24 18:32:04

We tend to celebrate our anniversaries on our own. We do get lovely presents from the children though.

We do celebrate birthdays.

Kim19 Sat 22-Jun-24 18:43:12

Many congratulations! I'm so envious. However, I did have thirty lovely years and many people are not even that lucky. Enjoy your celebrations. 👍🌷

Grandmadinosaur Sat 22-Jun-24 19:35:47

Many congratulations maddyone and Mr M. You have lots to look forward to with those celebrations.

It will be our ruby anniversary in August and we haven’t any definite plans yet but we will do something. Like Kitty it’s just ourselves usually but I think our small gc will want to do something all together. Probably a meal out together. DH and I may return to Paris for a few days as we honeymooned there.

Our best anniversary was our 25th when our son surprised us with a holiday abroad with him and his then gf. I was gobsmacked but so kind and we really appreciated it.

Maddy you’ve got me thinking maybe I should be making a cake I hadn’t thought about it before.

Enjoy your celebrations 🎉🎂💐🥂

monk08 Sat 22-Jun-24 19:52:20

Congratulations to you both, we celebrated ours last year.
We took DS DiL and grandsons on an all inclusive to Spain, unfortunately DH was ill so holiday did not go as planned but it was a nice break with family.

grannyjan2 Sat 22-Jun-24 20:28:02

It's our 50th this summer too .. no way am I baking cakes!
We hosted family + close friends for 30th and 40th, but I'm done with big gatherings now ... this time we are taking children and grandchildren to a seaside family hotel for a week .. with a "formal" gathering for dinner on the day .. otherwise everyone can come and go as they wish ...

keepcalmandcavachon Sat 22-Jun-24 20:30:29

Congratulations to you both! A Golden Couple indeed sunshinesunshinesunshinesunshinesunshine

lilypollen Sat 22-Jun-24 23:00:30

maddyone Congratulations. We had ours last December. Mr P would have had a big party at home - nightmare,not for me. I organised a lunch at a beautiful restaurant in Oxford for 24 close family and friends. Everything was superb so a memorable occasion which everyone still comments on.

lilypollen Sat 22-Jun-24 23:05:36

Maddy I've just reread your OP and seen you are going to the Ivy for lunch, don't know where but that was our venue.

Marydoll Sat 22-Jun-24 23:24:13

Maddy, you look fabulous! So Not how I envisaged you!. 😉

Congratulations!!