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bevisp1 Sun 07-Jul-24 13:21:39

Apparently Prince Harry compares his wife Meghan the same as princess diana.
Don’t think she is anything like her, no I don’t know her personally. My own opinion if anyone is compared to princess diana is Catherine/kate.
And anything that Harry and Meghan try to do then Prince William & Catherine can do better.

maddyone Tue 09-Jul-24 09:45:59

Mental illnesses and conditions cause terrible pain and distress in families, whoever the family is.

Anniebach Tue 09-Jul-24 09:21:02

I have not spoken of the marriage Iam

Iam64 Tue 09-Jul-24 09:15:16

You’re doing it again Annie, allowing your views on Diana to blame her for the awful damaging break down of the marriage, the ramifications from which continue.

Anniebach Mon 08-Jul-24 21:55:54

I admit, I didn’t have your inside knowledge with the late Queen or Tony Blair

flappergirl Mon 08-Jul-24 21:43:39

Diana genuinely touched hearts. She filled a yawning gap between the public and the monarchy at a time when their validity was being questioned as never before. Unfortunately for all concerned the House of Windsor failed to recognise a rapidly changing world, the need for change and the asset they had in Diana. In fact, Charles was jealous of her.

Whilst the Queen was loved by many, she was remote, bound by archaic tradition and mostly silent. Diana was young, beautiful and charismatic and wanted to make the Royal Family relevant. Sadly they and their hopelessly out of touch advisers threw the baby out with the bath water.

Instead, they humoured Charles as he took advice on modernisation from Jimmy Saville who was middle aged, not remotely considered a modern icon and never had been. He was also known behind the scenes (including to royal advisers) as, at best, unsavoury.

The royal family also indulged Charles' affair with Camilla Parker Bowles as it was considered quite acceptable for the Prince of Wales to have a mistress. They saw nothing intrinsically immoral in it or damaging to their own reputation. In fact they were decidedly irritated at his 19 year old wife's objections and branded her "difficult".

Diana's support for causes such as AIDS, homelessness and the abolition of landmines not only spoke to a new generation but to governments too and her campaigns were highly effective. She achieved more in her short life than many heads of state or politicians.

She would have made a good ambassador for Britain and Tony Blair was poised to offer her such a role but of course she died before that came to fruition.

Anniebach Mon 08-Jul-24 21:24:04

Agree Iam , mental illnesses can devastate families , this is not criticism it’s a fact

Iam64 Mon 08-Jul-24 21:18:41

Everyone involved suffered hurt, including Diana and especially William and Harry
The adults involved caused pain to each other and especially the two boys

Anniebach Mon 08-Jul-24 21:14:28

You have no problem with denying the truth , fact,she told untruths, some caused much hurt , this is acceptable to you,

nadateturbe Mon 08-Jul-24 21:03:49

OK, Anniebach, I've said my piece. I get upset with the abuse of Diana. It's just not nice or right. I don't know how people justify it. And some people seem to enjoy it.
I hope they can live with it.

Anniebach Mon 08-Jul-24 20:50:34

He did not say that, the press certainly did.

nadateturbe Mon 08-Jul-24 20:37:46

I'm pretty sure Charles said he didn't love her. And I certainly don't judge him in his private life. I'm not a monarchist, as you know, but I felt sorry for him. And Diana.
I don't like people being nasty and judgemental about someone who isn't here to defend themselves. Let him without sin...

Anniebach Mon 08-Jul-24 20:11:49

It’s fact, you had no problem with a post saying ‘her husband never loved her’ , that was certainly judging

nadateturbe Mon 08-Jul-24 20:09:09

If you say so Anniebach. "Parading her children ^ doesn't sound non judgemental.

Anniebach Mon 08-Jul-24 19:54:34

I don’t judge, I quote

nadateturbe Mon 08-Jul-24 18:51:16

The living can speak for themselves. The dead can't. In any case Anniebach as a believer I don't judge.

nadateturbe Mon 08-Jul-24 18:48:39

I've looked too *TheatreLover". Couldn't find it.

TheatreLover Mon 08-Jul-24 17:27:18

nadateturbe

I quite like what B face has written. (Don't like the name!)
Anniebach "definitely derogatory" and nothing written about Diana is derogatory?
Really.! (exasperated sigh)

I rather like this quote as well. I was thinking maybe a quote from Warhammers as there are harpies involved, but I can’t find any such quote so no doubt wrong.

Anniebach Mon 08-Jul-24 16:17:30

The living can only defend themselves by going to the law, the dead cannot take back their untrue allegations

Iam64 Mon 08-Jul-24 16:03:06

Allsorts

The dead can’t defend themselves, you don't know the whole picture. What we do know is Diana lit up a room. People wanted to be with her, she was kind and compassionate. She had lots of problems because of an insecure childhood. To find out she was never loved by the husband she adored must have broken her again. She was publicly betrayed. How would you feel? She died young leaving her two boys.
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Thank you Allsorts

crazyH Mon 08-Jul-24 15:54:46

Yes Allsorts - I agree

nadateturbe Mon 08-Jul-24 15:54:26

I quite like what B face has written. (Don't like the name!)
Anniebach "definitely derogatory" and nothing written about Diana is derogatory?
Really.! (exasperated sigh)

nadateturbe Mon 08-Jul-24 15:45:11

Redhead56

Well said Allsorts.

Agree

NotSpaghetti Mon 08-Jul-24 15:26:16

I read them..

Callistemon213 Mon 08-Jul-24 15:21:15

JaneJudge

The irony is bumface posted a few days ago saying no one read their posts grin

How could he/she possibly know that? 🤔

JaneJudge Mon 08-Jul-24 13:48:05

The irony is bumface posted a few days ago saying no one read their posts grin