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Pyjamas as day wear?

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grannyactivist Sat 13-Jul-24 19:36:03

I’ve seen people in pyjama type clothes in supermarkets and once I literally bumped into two women who were shopping in their dressing gowns, but this afternoon I was actually deeply surprised to see a couple walking hand in hand along the high street and the woman was wearing pyjamas. Proper, unmistakable, pyjamas. For a day out at the seaside. They were very nice, (quite similar to the photo) and she was decently covered up, but I’m still bemused.

Marmight Sun 14-Jul-24 20:32:19

Ooops

Rowantree Sun 14-Jul-24 21:10:29

Didn't Churchill wear pyjamas during the day? Holding meetings and so on? I've never seen women in PJs shopping but I wouldn't be bothered by it and don't feel bits being slovenly ( whatever that means).
Shirley what demographic wears pyjamas day and night? I'm mystified.

MayBee70 Sun 14-Jul-24 22:05:15

I think he wore a sort of boiler suit?

Marmight Sun 14-Jul-24 22:42:50

MayBee70

I think he wore a sort of boiler suit?

What appears to be a pin stripe boiler suit 😄

biglouis Mon 15-Jul-24 00:42:03

The joy of being an adult is doing what you want, when you want, I think

Agree 100%. So long as people are clean and decently covered what does it matter? I dont care enough about my neighbours and strangers in the street to worry about what they are wearing.

As an antique dealer I sometimes (in my mind) regret the passing of the gracious fashions and manners of the past. However people were slaves to etiquette. Many of these casual usages became common during lockdown and people have other priorities now.

Esmay Mon 15-Jul-24 21:07:04

The British Raj introduced the UK to pyjamas .
Popular at first them considered to be slovenly .
I look back at the way my mother and my grandmother dressed when going out .
A bath , full make up (in Grandma's case rather unsuccessful dabbing at her cheeks with rouge ) corsets like straitjackets , a pressed suit or dress and handbags matching shoes with a hat and gloves .
Otherwise , Grandma said that only street women went out incorrectly dressed .
Even going out with your coat open was considered fast as for smoking ,talking loudly and laughing "like a hyena " -doomed you to a life of prostitution .
My Grandma was dressed appropriately until the day she died .
I noticed that my mother finally relaxed about corsets when she was about 70 .
I've let myself go she told me as she stopped going out , going on holidays and eating a lot of crisps , sweets chocolates , cakes , biscuits and puddings washed down with brandy in a tea cup as it was medicinal .

She admired our neighbour's pyjamas .
She like many women love them .
There have been complaints and notices at some schools when dropping children off and collecting them wearing pyjamas .

I quite like them .
I wear Kaftans a lot .
I also like shalwar kameez ,because like pyjamas they are so comfortable .
I think that I only wear bras if going out .
The sheer bliss of not wearing one .
I hate tights .
I only wear them if it's formal .
The only place where I'm guaranteed to be dressed properly is church .

pinkprincess Mon 15-Jul-24 22:49:37

Romola

What about nighties? The ones I saw in MandS looked pretty enough to be worn as dresses.
But generally, I think that unless you're ill, it's lazy not to put on clothes in the morning.

In the summer of 1972, when 8 months pregnant with my second child, I saw two nighties in M&S which flared from the shoulders,
.I wore these as maternity dresses and no one knew the difference.

biglouis Tue 16-Jul-24 01:09:58

J live in a diverse area. Both men and women wear "pajama like" clothes on occasions, particularly weddings. There are other women who are wearing the niquab and completely veiled outside the house. I think the only thing that would offend people here are very revealing clothes.

I dont see its any of the school what women wear to drop off their children, There are far worse offences when dropping off your children than wearing Pjs, Thinking of bad and unsafe parking, blocking residents drives, and so on.

Purplepixie Tue 16-Jul-24 02:50:31

I think it is up to the individual just what they wear but I would never wear pyjamas to go out of the house in. Never venture as far as the bins in mine. Showered and dressed as soon as I get up.

nanna8 Tue 16-Jul-24 03:17:35

I’ve never seen anyone out in their PJs here, ever. Bathers, yes, but not PJs. You wouldn’t wear the ones here they, are not that nice. I think more people were nightdresses. Haven’t seen anyone in those, either,come to that.

HelterSkelter1 Tue 16-Jul-24 05:31:25

I am wearing in bed similar pjs to the opening photo, but in navy and white.
And I just thought would I wear them to Waitrose this morning? Good lord no. Although I would colour match my shopping trolley.

David49 Tue 16-Jul-24 07:33:37

I happened to drive past a primary school when parents were walking children in a few were wearing dressing gown and slippers, not a pretty sight. It’s nothing about fashion or style it’s just idleness - too lazy to get dressed, or even put a brush through their hair.

olddog Tue 16-Jul-24 09:22:17

I can't understand it, its easy enough to pull on some joggers and a top. Over the nightwear even.

Mollygo Tue 16-Jul-24 09:25:51

David49

I happened to drive past a primary school when parents were walking children in a few were wearing dressing gown and slippers, not a pretty sight. It’s nothing about fashion or style it’s just idleness - too lazy to get dressed, or even put a brush through their hair.

You would have been horrified by our school the other day then.
All the children and most of the staff came in nightwear to promote bedtime stories or just reading for pleasure. 😁😁😁

AGAA4 Tue 16-Jul-24 11:05:48

I went to a New Year's Eve party in my nightie when I was nine months pregnant. It was ankle length and silky and I was complemented on my "dress". I danced the night away and my daughter was born a few days later.

Sparklefizz Thu 18-Jul-24 08:01:48

Naga Munchetty on BBC Breakfast is wearing the fashion pyjama look this morning.

MissAdventure Thu 18-Jul-24 09:12:12

Well, I hope she washed her "underneath" first.
Lazy woman!! wink