DH thinks I've lost the plot.

Mine is academically very clever but I don’t know where he was when they handed out common sense

Since Covid to which I am vulnerable we have shopped on line
weekly.
I keep well stocked up in case what I order is out of stock on delivery day or the driver can’t get to us for some reason.
DH just doesn’t think ahead or think anything might go wrong delivery wise- we havnt run out of any thing yet but if I left the ordering to him we would have all the things on special offer or that he likes but probably no milk or other basics.

Never ask a husband what he would like for dinner . Just say ,"It's chicken etc for tonight. You have been married to him long enough to know his likes .He is either being awkward or being a bully .

I don't even have a working freezer and yet I don't starve.

I'm assuming you live in a town and don't ever get snowed in, keepingquiet!

kittylester

DH wasn't criticising just bewildered!!

And it is his business - we are in this together!!

Does it irritate you that your DH isn't interested?

😁

jennilin

Never ask a husband what he would like for dinner . Just say ,"It's chicken etc for tonight. You have been married to him long enough to know his likes .He is either being awkward or being a bully .

Rude and uncalled for.

Just why?

Mine would just eat it, he knows we always have a stocked freezer. But very often I will pick up other bits

jennilin

Never ask a husband what he would like for dinner . Just say ,"It's chicken etc for tonight. You have been married to him long enough to know his likes .He is either being awkward or being a bully .

what an uncalled for comment.. he doesn't sound like either.. he was just asking a question..

Whethertomorrow, thankyou for the hug , very much appreciated.
Kittylester I have sent you a PM .

pascal30

jennilin

Never ask a husband what he would like for dinner . Just say ,"It's chicken etc for tonight. You have been married to him long enough to know his likes .He is either being awkward or being a bully .

what an uncalled for comment.. he doesn't sound like either.. he was just asking a question..

Never ask a husband what he would like for dinner . Just say ,"It's chicken etc for tonight
That sounds like a form of bullying to me.

I take it your husband never cooks, jennilin

Pigs in blankets. No problem. Cut into thick slices, gently fry, add onions, diced carrots, celery and herbs. Add a can of tomatoes and simmer gently. Serve with pasta. Very tasty. Looking forward to seeing more pig in blanket recipes.

You bought a cottage pie?

Yup. I agree. Lways good to keep stuff back for when you need it . Men can’t forward plan.

Yes, eazybee, I did. I have made enough cottage pies in my time to feel no guilt in buying one. In case you are wondering, I am a good cook, my freezer is well stocked and I have no compunction in buying a Cottage Pie, a Chatlie Bigham, a takeaway curry or fish and chips. I've earned it.

DH isn't a bully - he just thinks I've lost the plot.

It is so much easier when people don't try to be helpful without asking what would actually help! Absolutely this is the most wonderful quote ever, I shall definitely use that one in my volunteering world. No one wants to organise anything, only help, but then they want to do it all their way!!!!

eazybee

You bought a cottage pie?

😂😂😂

We just ate a bought Shepherd's Pie.
Not sure which shepherd made it. Was he at the Nativity, I wonder?

kittylester

Yes, eazybee, I did. I have made enough cottage pies in my time to feel no guilt in buying one. In case you are wondering, I am a good cook, my freezer is well stocked and I have no compunction in buying a Cottage Pie, a Chatlie Bigham, a takeaway curry or fish and chips. I've earned it.

DH isn't a bully - he just thinks I've lost the plot.

😂😂😂

Ditto!!

I think DH found out I'd lost the plot (or never found it in the first place) several years ago.

I always asked DH what he wants for dinner because sometimes it’s something he’s better a cooking so therefore he makes dinner. Quite simple really. He used to be really fussy, but once I started working at 5pm until 8pm, when the kids were small, he took over cooking duties and found he did like somethings that he’d previously didn’t eat. Now many years later we still share cooking duties.

It also didn’t need defrosting so ready when you got home.

We love pigs in blankets casserole, although the recipe states “leftover pigs in blankets “ and we never have any of those, so have to make fresh ones

I'm the one with the PIBs, but my husband is vegetarian, so won't eat a casserole with pork in it . Our son and I will devour them, but son is only with us for Christmas Day, so even he won't get through lots of them, and daughter is also veggie, so won't help either. DIL is working on Christmas Day, and the plan is that my son will eat with us then drive home to be there for when she finishes her shift. I said he should take her a dinner home so he doesn't need to cook and she gets a Christmas dinner. Son will get one too, so that will see off a good few. He can have some for Christmas sandwiches as well. They won't be wasted.

It was a thoughtful act on my husband's part, just totally misplaced. They are in the freezer, and I'll find ways of using them up, I'm sure. They could be added to my portion of a bean casserole, for instance, or they'd be good with a cooked breakfast.

Agree, if you couldn't get out then you still have a dinner

Every time I’m in MnS I buy the single person Cottage pies and Shepard’s pies for my 91 year old mum. She loves them especially as she lives alone.

She has some in her freezer of course, for snowed in days. But will happily eat a fresh one or two while freezing the rest.

A case of never apologise never explain. If he had to ask the question he could not understand the explanation.

M&S have the most delicious pigs in blankets sandwiches. There's some sort of tasty chutney in them. You could copy that idea?