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fancythat Sat 12-Apr-25 11:29:45

There seems to be a need for it!

Post here what you are doing, if your day is boring.

I, and some others, will still find it interesting.

mumski Sun 13-Apr-25 15:14:14

Thank you SueDonim for the jigsaw puzzle link. I've had a busy day so far, and this will be perfect to have a lovely time this afternoon.

readsalot Sun 13-Apr-25 15:32:45

I got all my summer clothes out on the spare bed with the intention of getting rid of what I rarely wear. Wearing 20% of your clothes 80% of the time sort of thing. I popped downstairs for a cup of tea and then indecision, apathy and procrastination kicked in. I read my book instead.

Taichinan Sun 13-Apr-25 15:41:52

Oh I missed it!

Taichinan Sun 13-Apr-25 15:42:40

The Boat Race I mean. Used to love watching that!

Ziplok Sun 13-Apr-25 16:06:45

I think days that seem boring or mundane are part and parcel of life. We can’t be busy, occupied and on the go all the time (and I realise for some, being on the go is no longer physically an option).

Usually, I’m quite content to be doing the mundane and some of the things I enjoy doing would, perhaps, be boring to others, i.e. “busy doing nothing”.

Having said all that, there are times when I feel totally fed up with myself and “bored” and can’t motivate myself to settle to anything at all - when I feel like that, I could scream. Again, though, I suppose feeling like that at times is quite normal.

Today, I’ve not done very much at all, been to church, done a couple of squardle puzzles, written a few Easter cards and come on here. If there’s anything of interest on the tv tonight, I might watch that 😁.

Whiff Sun 13-Apr-25 16:24:34

Anniebach sorry to hear you are in a nursing home . Hope they are looking after you and there are things for you to do . And the food and company is good.

Grannylynj Sun 13-Apr-25 16:32:18

Btw nigella is night scented stock

ixion Sun 13-Apr-25 16:47:20

Nigella damascena is otherwise known as love in a mist.
Night scented stock is Matthiola longipetala.

Anniebach Sun 13-Apr-25 17:15:55

Whiff thank you, so kind. I chose to move to the nursing home, rheumatoid arthritis from toes to shoulders, through the Covid lockdowns I had to live off Liquid food, no meals on wheels, no carers available. Was to have replacements hip and knee but Covid brought long delays.
I decided enough, my younger daughter and son in law had a barn renovated into a bungalow for me but I wanted to stay near my grandchildren, the three in full time employment but I had promised their mother, my darling elder daughter I would care for them.
I chose a nursing home about 20 miles from them, a private
nursing home and I am happy here. Staff are great , nurses, carers, kitchen , laundry, gardeners all . The gardens are beautiful, many activities.
I was born and attended school four miles from where I live now, feel I have come home

sue421 Sun 13-Apr-25 17:18:00

I can have many boring days, from being a very lively person, my 24/7 caring has really impacted on my life. BUT this is the way it is.... I have deliveries by Morrisons or Tesco, so shopping is sorted. I love reading and friends keep me supplied with suggestions for books. Sometimes I sit here and think I'm bored but really I could probably do with a nap! To keep my energy going. I could find something to do, a very small garden to look after, organise some friends to provide support so I can go out for a couple of hours once a week, and I have just organised a 4 night holiday while a friend who will stay with my husband. We met when we were 17! First holiday for 4 years. It is not bliss, but it is what it is. Also I am finding that little pleasures as' avocado on toast, mushrooms on toast etc for breakfast just mean a lot to me. I have to say my husband is a wonderful patient. So I have it easy. I do look at how hard it is for other people. I love photography but not able to do this as I used to... but I still try. Plus I do have a network of friends who will be there for us. We are so lucky. But I still get in the doldrums, at 74 I expected more life, but that has not happened... and I have to go with it.

J52 Sun 13-Apr-25 18:37:57

merlotgran

Come on, Cambridge!

Yes a very good win! Not a boring day as we were at a reception on the Tames to watch the race, plus the other 3. All won by Cambridge!

J52 Sun 13-Apr-25 18:45:46

Sorry not boring enough. I promise to have a boring day tomorrow.

woodenspoon Sun 13-Apr-25 20:05:36

A slightly boring day here of cutting back shrubs so we can see the wood from the trees! We uncovered a flowering cherry that we didn’t know was there and I’m hoping it will grow now. Our backs are aching now, we have overdone it but have a sense of satisfaction and a job well done. We lifted some large bags of bark and that really did our backs a bit so resting after showers while watching Tom Hanks on bbc1.

hollysteers Sun 13-Apr-25 20:08:51

sue421

I can have many boring days, from being a very lively person, my 24/7 caring has really impacted on my life. BUT this is the way it is.... I have deliveries by Morrisons or Tesco, so shopping is sorted. I love reading and friends keep me supplied with suggestions for books. Sometimes I sit here and think I'm bored but really I could probably do with a nap! To keep my energy going. I could find something to do, a very small garden to look after, organise some friends to provide support so I can go out for a couple of hours once a week, and I have just organised a 4 night holiday while a friend who will stay with my husband. We met when we were 17! First holiday for 4 years. It is not bliss, but it is what it is. Also I am finding that little pleasures as' avocado on toast, mushrooms on toast etc for breakfast just mean a lot to me. I have to say my husband is a wonderful patient. So I have it easy. I do look at how hard it is for other people. I love photography but not able to do this as I used to... but I still try. Plus I do have a network of friends who will be there for us. We are so lucky. But I still get in the doldrums, at 74 I expected more life, but that has not happened... and I have to go with it.

Sue421💐

fancythat Sun 13-Apr-25 21:32:10

loopyloo

Fancythat, are you in Birmingham?

No!

Allira Sun 13-Apr-25 21:35:26

woodenspoon

A slightly boring day here of cutting back shrubs so we can see the wood from the trees! We uncovered a flowering cherry that we didn’t know was there and I’m hoping it will grow now. Our backs are aching now, we have overdone it but have a sense of satisfaction and a job well done. We lifted some large bags of bark and that really did our backs a bit so resting after showers while watching Tom Hanks on bbc1.

That's not at all boring!
It's productive, well done.

I did cook dinner 🙂

Allira Sun 13-Apr-25 21:36:26

J52

merlotgran

Come on, Cambridge!

Yes a very good win! Not a boring day as we were at a reception on the Tames to watch the race, plus the other 3. All won by Cambridge!

Least said, soonest mended. ☹

SueDonim Sun 13-Apr-25 22:03:21

You can tell how boring my day has been when I tell you that I’m excited right now because it’s raining! 😂

madeleine45 Sun 13-Apr-25 23:10:50

I have very mixed days and sometimes the same sort of day is what I want and at other times I am bored by it!! So , my first problem is besides other things I have a very bad back, and can wake up intending to do something but end up struggling just to get through the day and nothing I want done. So if I feel ok and the weather is good I ignore the jobs and go out while I can.

So then a day like today is not boring, just about doing what I can manage and being pleased no one else can see the mess here! The excitement of the day today is a choice between managing to get all the pots washed dried and put away, so that the kitchen looks tidy , and trying to do some filing and throwing paperwork away. Here I have managed to do quite a bit, but you wouldnt think so if you saw the room, it looks no tidier than when I started.

I am also quite pleased with making a dinner using up lots of bits and pieces and clearing space in the fridge. Have you fallen asleep yet with the tale of my boring day?

Taichinan Sun 13-Apr-25 23:24:07

Anniebach that sounds a lovely situation where you are and it's good to know you're happy there - and near your grandchildren.

Aldom Mon 14-Apr-25 08:17:23

Morning Anniebach it was lovely to read about your nursing home. I'm so pleased for you that you are comfortable there and able to enjoy your days. I have clear memories of how difficult life was for you during lockdown. And like me, you were newly bereaved of a beloved adult child. Thinking of you. Sending you a hug. flowers

merlotgran Mon 14-Apr-25 08:49:54

Boring old Aldi this morning but it’s got to be done. ☹️

Granniesunite Mon 14-Apr-25 09:09:22

sue421 I could have written your post especially how simple things like a tasty breakfast is so satisfying.

Like you I’m very grateful for the help and support I do have for my husband but sometimes I do miss the freedom to just pop to the shops for a pint of milk whenever I run out. However I accept this is part of my life too and I wouldn’t have it any other way at present.

All my best wishes to you and to your husband.

Caleo Mon 14-Apr-25 10:39:18

I squirted the ketchup on to the plate before the fried egg and bread roll. Usually the ketchup goes on the top.

ixion Mon 14-Apr-25 10:43:34

Caleo

I squirted the ketchup on to the plate before the fried egg and bread roll. Usually the ketchup goes on the top.

😂