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Which COUNTY/region would you live in, if not your own

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TerriBull Wed 21-May-25 12:06:35

Following on from "what country would you live in?" and "3 favourite European cities", here's another such question, where in the UK would you opt to live if you were to make such a choice. Me, I'd go for either the Dorset or Devon coasts, South Hams would be a favourite, with an accessible beach (sandy) to walk on and an abundance of fish restaurants, or even one or two that serve fish that isn't battered, and if money were no object a house with a wonderful coastal view.

Greyduster Wed 21-May-25 12:12:58

Norfolk for the wildlife, the coastal scenery and the seafood.

Hellogirl1 Wed 21-May-25 13:37:34

Kintyre in Western Scotland, beautiful!

Norah Wed 21-May-25 13:41:07

Suffolk, East Anglia

BlueSapphire Wed 21-May-25 14:10:59

I would love to return to my birth county of Wiltshire.
But then I have always wanted to live by the sea, so perhaps the Dorset coast.

Clawdy Wed 21-May-25 14:50:33

The Lake District. Love it.

Dee1012 Wed 21-May-25 14:58:01

I think I'd opt for N Yorkshire...a rural area around Whitby.

M0nica Wed 21-May-25 15:28:22

Me, ever the practical, would want to be somewhere with all the facilities I may need close to hand, near family and friends, and with the freedom to get up to London for exhibitions and concerts. And plenty of trees and opens space to close to my home

Friends of ours moved to the Lake District, which we love. We visited and they were so happy, we both thought how fortunate they were - then we realised that they were the kind of people who get involved in village activities, parish council and WI, gardening and pottering, not activities that we were itnerested in.

When we realised that to follow any of our interests we would need to get in the car and drive 20 or 30 miles along country roads, often in the dark, we realised that the Lake District is for holidays and yearnings, but not for living.

I have spent most of my life living in and around Berkshire, its wide open downs, huge skys, the river Thames and all its tributaries, easy access to London, the huge cultural variety of Oxford. From the station a few miles away, I can get trains to most of the west country, south Wales, Herefordshire and Worcestershire, and one change at Oxford gives access to Scotland and most of the north of England.

The one problem; distance from family. So we are moving to within easy reach of Cambridge. I will be losing the downs, but not the river, the Great Ouse winds its way through my new location on its way to the Wash, but still the easy train access round the country and to London, and all local facilities within a couple of hundred yards, plus daughter on the doorstop and DS an easy train ride.

It is lovely to think about living in beautiful places, but I suspect most people, not all, would find the difficulty of shopping, of distance to doctors and hospitals, distance from family would soon take their toll and they would long to be back where they came from.

Anniebach Wed 21-May-25 15:36:53

Nearly three years ago I moved from Mid Wales to South Wales, was born here and the people are so friendly

Skydancer Wed 21-May-25 15:39:48

Hard to say as there are so many beautiful places. Last year we visited rural Kent and absolutely loved it. So maybe there.

midgey Wed 21-May-25 15:41:55

Would have to be what was once Montgomeryshire. Such a beautiful area.

Norah Wed 21-May-25 15:54:25

If not your own Oh dear, I love my own.

Next up -- Norfolk.

Freya5 Wed 21-May-25 16:00:20

Norah

^If not your own^ Oh dear, I love my own.

Next up -- Norfolk.

I love my own too, but if a choice then Yorshire, near the sea.

TerriBull Wed 21-May-25 16:12:37

Interesting replies! so many beautiful places mentioned here, sometimes it's hard to pinpoint just one. I do like to transpose myself sometimes in my mind's eye to living in other parts of Britain it's the Escape to the Country effect that sends me off into these realms of fantasy.

Actually I love my own too Norah, I was knocked out on Escape to the Country last week when Alistair Appleton showed the viewers around his very quirky off grid house that had amazing views over the Seven Sisters. Sussex beaches are a bit too stony for my liking though, with the exception of West Wittering. I like a sandy beach, In that respect I've enjoyed lovely walks on stunning beaches in Dorset, Devon, Cornwall, Wales and Holkham in Norfolk, Bamburgh, Northumberland another wow! but a bit chilly.

Cabbie21 Wed 21-May-25 16:14:32

I was talking to two ladies at u3a today and the three of us had moved here to be closer to family, in a small market town with all the facilities you need plus good public transport, and a city not far away.
If I could replicate those in a more scenic area, it might be North Yorkshire, Norfolk or maybe Sussex. Unlikely, however.

Samsara1 Wed 21-May-25 16:18:06

We have lived in;-
Essex - busy, lots of facilities and things to do, some beauty spots e.g. Dedham, congested roads.

North Yorkshire - beautiful - very cold in Winter and can be isolating.

Leicestershire- very beautiful counryside and a lot to do a kinder climate than above.

Cheshire - very congested roads, prices higher than all the former.

In answer to the question - Suffolk but otherwise stay in Leicestershire.

Greyduster Wed 21-May-25 18:52:11

But if it moved to Norfolk, I wouldn’t have the Peak District right on my doorstep, and that would be very hard to leave!

Cossy Wed 21-May-25 19:04:57

Norfolk or Cumbria or Cornwall!

Magenta8 Wed 21-May-25 19:17:50

I was born in London and I would love to live there again but I couldn't even afford a garage if I wanted to return to live anywhere near where I was brought up.

Grandma70s Wed 21-May-25 19:32:15

Suffolk for me, either inland or near the sea. Norfolk a close second. My son used to have a lovely house in Norfolk near Fakenham, so I know the area fairly well.

Ilovedogs22 Wed 21-May-25 19:39:00

I thought I'd found the perfect place to move to, having visited it on numerous occasions.
However, when I looked -up the various statistics online I found out that my "ideal town" was plagued by violent crime & antisocial behaviour!
Make sure you do your research thoroughly, Google maps even show you where the supermarkets, bus stops & train stations are, very useful!
The best of luck. There are lots of nice places out there. 😊

OldFrill Wed 21-May-25 20:29:32

Chipping Sodbury

ayse Wed 21-May-25 20:39:58

Sussex near Brighton. My childhood home and that of my maternal ancestors.

merlotgran Wed 21-May-25 20:44:52

North Norfolk for just about everything.
Somerset because it’s a county I’m only just getting to know and I love it so far.
The Isle of Wight because it’s my spiritual home but I’d have to win the lottery to afford the ferry fares.

I would like to say East Sussex because I have family living near Glyndebourne but it’s so crowded now. The roads are ridiculously busy and I like a slower pace of life.

cornergran Wed 21-May-25 20:54:19

The Norfolk coast but, and it’s a big but, it would be too far from our family so it would have to be The Cotswolds.