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Usedtobeblonde Thu 16-Oct-25 13:36:33

Does anyone else feel hesitant about starting a lighthearted or amusing thread because of the difficult and sad times some of our members are going through?
This morning I got myself in a real pickle, frustrating, potentially embarrassing and thought others might find it funny but then it seemed so trivial and I didn’t post it.
Is it in our nature to shield others or is it a case of life goes on and we must enjoy those moments and share them?

Sago Thu 16-Oct-25 13:38:17

No, I think it’s always important to have some trivia.

Magenta8 Thu 16-Oct-25 13:55:45

I enjoy trivial posts but I also appreciate some of the more serious ones. The good think about GN is that it has a good mix of themes and a good mix of viewpoints.

Magenta8 Thu 16-Oct-25 13:56:11

thing

M0nica Thu 16-Oct-25 13:59:06

My memory of the hours following first my MiL's death and some year's later my sister's are sitting down and watching MiL's fvourite comedy programme and us all hugging and laughing out loud, and, after my sister's death, one of my other sister's cats getting their head caught in a sandwich bag as they tried to reach the crumbs aat the bottom and staggering round the kitchen like a drunk, until someone noticed and took it off. The laughter that engendered was such a relief.

dalrymple23 Thu 16-Oct-25 14:06:02

I read the title of this thread and thought that someone was reluctant about buying a postage stamp because of the exhorbitant price!!!!!

Babs03 Thu 16-Oct-25 14:20:02

I love funny lighthearted threads and am going through a really tough time right now but I find it lifts my spirits.
So more please. 🙏🏾

Allira Thu 16-Oct-25 14:22:05

Yes, we need some lightheadedness, UTTB
😁

Blossoming Thu 16-Oct-25 14:23:05

We need lighthearted moments to get us through the tough times.

Oreo Thu 16-Oct-25 14:24:12

We need much more humour on this site generally.

Babs03 Thu 16-Oct-25 14:26:07

I think it is vice versa, I came off N&P because it is far too depressing and adversarial and I don’t have the headspace for it. A bit of harmless larking about is what we all need imho.

kittylester Thu 16-Oct-25 14:27:22

I think it's sad that we have to specify that a thread is 'lighthearted' now.

Crossstitchfan Thu 16-Oct-25 14:29:59

What’s N&P please, Babs03?

Babs03 Thu 16-Oct-25 14:43:29

News and Politics.

Usedtobeblonde Thu 16-Oct-25 14:47:14

Thank you all.
You have made me think and yes, we do need humour and lightness in our lives.

hollysteers Thu 16-Oct-25 15:23:58

When my late DH was seriously ill and I also had health problems, I remember telling my sister in detail about a novel I was so enjoying,
“How can you concentrate?” she said. The truth is books have always been a refuge for me and we all need to escape into another world when we have troubles.

Georgesgran Thu 16-Oct-25 15:33:20

I love a bit of trivia, but at the moment I’m noticing a lot of light-hearted posts are jumped on and criticized by a few (but vocal) GNs - or is that just my perception?

escaped Thu 16-Oct-25 15:41:57

I enjoy trivial posts, especially when posters laugh at themselves, so I would say, Do carry on Usedtobeblonde.

I enjoy serious threads too, they make me think and sometimes teach me to reevaluate my opinions.

I don't like posters being mean to others, I have always pounced or jumped-in on those occasions!

We do need fun and humour here.

escaped Thu 16-Oct-25 15:44:17

PS I don't mean I ever pounce on light-hearted posts for the sake of it, Georgesgran. I know too well what it feels like to be on the receiving end!

escaped Thu 16-Oct-25 15:44:46

dalrymple23

I read the title of this thread and thought that someone was reluctant about buying a postage stamp because of the exhorbitant price!!!!!

😂

Cherrytree59 Thu 16-Oct-25 15:48:04

No you are right Georgesgran.
One that springs to mind, although not actually a light-hearted thread as it was a discussion about coping with winter.
I was going to post, but almost immediately it was made out that it happens every year and we should just get on with it!

OP I enjoy a bit of trivia , lighthearted threads lift the spirits and can often meander in an amusing fashion 😄
So please carry on ......

Grannybags Thu 16-Oct-25 15:48:36

Oreo

We need much more humour on this site generally.

Agreed!

AGAA4 Thu 16-Oct-25 15:55:00

There used to be some posters who when you saw a post by them you knew would have a good laugh.
Sadly there aren't that many now and we used to have such fun on GN.

FriedGreenTomatoes2 Thu 16-Oct-25 16:02:25

Usedtobeblonde

Thank you all.
You have made me think and yes, we do need humour and lightness in our lives.

Totally agree uttb.
Life has to go on. If someone isn’t in the mood for humour they can easily pass on by.

Be good if there was a forum entitled ‘Lighthearted’ or some such?

Perhaps the mods would consider it? 🤷‍♀️

WelshPoppy Thu 16-Oct-25 17:03:37

Let's keep all the posts miserable just in case someone takes offence at a bit of laughter