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Cabbie21 Thu 22-Jan-26 13:58:31

The percentage of children not ready for school has increased, 37% I think, in today’s news. Over 25% are not toilet trained.

Of course there will always be children with developmental difficulties, but is this general increase because both parents need to work earn money, so there is not enough time with their children ?
Or is ‘ child-led’ toilet training, feeding etc responsible?

Some children have never experienced books and treat them like tablets or phones.

Guidelines are to be issued, but I would not want to be a Reception teacher these days.

Norah Mon 26-Jan-26 14:16:29

Chocolatelovinggran

Golly, Menopauselbitch, " most of these mums get benefits"..
How do you know this?

Agreed. Horrible unnecessary comment.

Musicgirl Mon 26-Jan-26 15:06:16

When l started school in September, 1969 as a rising five, my teacher was a lady called Mrs Scales. She was an excellent, very experienced teacher, whose firm but fair and high expectations of each child she taught was legendary. As there were nearly forty of us in the class, including two children with special needs, and she had no adult help, this was vital. Parents were kept outside the school gates and my mother says that every so often she would lecture the parents along the lines of: "don't worry about teaching your children to read and write, that's my job. Your job is to make sure your children can button up their coats, because I don't have time to button forty coats, dress and undress themselves and use a knife and fork." I think Mrs Scales would be turning in her grave at the idea of children not being able to use the toilet independently.

Basgetti Wed 28-Jan-26 14:04:11

Menopauselbitch

Another aspect of this is nappies. I had to get my boys trained as soon as possible to save money on nappies. Most of these mums get benefits so it doesn’t matter. Lazy parenting.

You never miss an opportunity, do you? Behave.