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You must be old if you have a purse or a wallet.

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ROMILO Wed 22-Jul-26 15:20:35

I have just read a news item that states if you have a purse or a wallet, carry store cards or have cash then you are definitely old!

Today's bright young things have no need for anything but their phones.

What happens when said phones are stolen or lost?

So do you have a purse or a wallet?

en orlost

mokryna Thu 23-Jul-26 15:26:31

I have a month’s supply of cash in small notes and coins locked away for when the wires get cut or transmissions get blocked. I use cash for every day items, my bank statements would look ridiculously long if I didn’t. That being said, do the people who do everything on their phone check the items on their bank accounts? My super intelligent DD was paying two electric bills for over a year because they hadn’t stopped one when they moved, relying on the next people to so as verbally agreed.

tattygran14 Thu 23-Jul-26 15:33:44

I wouldn’t risk relying on my phone.
I had to change it a while back, and still curse it daily. It ‘updates’ randomly, I don’t ask it to, it changes what I type, in short I loathe it. Sadly I need it for a speech to text app, invaluable, as my cochlear implant is so unreliable.
Possibly I just struggle with tech stuff generally? It doesn’t like me at all. (Samsung something or other)

Estrellita Thu 23-Jul-26 16:00:38

I am old.

Mojack26 Thu 23-Jul-26 16:07:01

Wee coin purse only now and card wallet for debit cards,driving licence etc that's it...use my phone all the time and I'm old nearly 71

MissAdventure Thu 23-Jul-26 16:12:51

I'm exactly the same with my phone, tattygran14.
I don't trust it at all.
In fact, I despise it.

Nannee49 Thu 23-Jul-26 16:26:56

Not only do I have my own purse but I'm the proud holder/keeper of a bright pink "Kitty purse" (it's written on the front) with twenty pounds still in there from "the girls" last outing to Hebden Bridge & quietly awaiting our next day away.

We may be oldies but we're still "the girls" to each other complete with the communal kitty purse.

HelterSkelter1 Thu 23-Jul-26 16:49:33

I liked a kitty purse on a day out with a friend. We both used to put in 30.00 to 50.00 cash and that paid for train fares, lunch, coffee and entrance to whatever. If any left over we divided it and took it back or left it for next time. Worked well.

Whether it would work well now with fewer places taking cash I am not sure. Circumstances have stopped us going out for days. But this autumn we will be.

Mauduit24 Thu 23-Jul-26 17:09:45

I carry a purse in my bag . One thing I don’t do is put my card on my phone . I’ve seen far too many instances of phone theft and people suddenly panicking that they can’t get any access to their money as their entire life depends upon the phone. Only recently the supermarket was saying cash only as the system had crashed for contactless / card payments. The look on the youngsters faces was priceless!.of course I was fine because I had the cash in my purse . Guess it must make me old fashioned!. One thing I have noticed is how many youngsters don’t sign the back of their bank cards these days ?.

Gwyllt Thu 23-Jul-26 17:17:41

Fed up with people labelling others So unnecessary

watermeadow Thu 23-Jul-26 18:16:28

I’m very old indeed. I carry a bag containing a purse containing my bank card plus my number in code, £10 note and bus pass.
Occasionally I remember to take my mobile phone in case I get run over but I don’t use it, sight too bad and hand too trembly. I don’t actually know how to make or receive calls as I’ve never tried.

MissAdventure Thu 23-Jul-26 18:27:11

If it's helpful at all, without being patronising, I hope, there are very simple mobiles with huge buttons and just one or two functions.
You've managed, though, and are managing, so... probably not of interest to you.

SillyNanny321 Thu 23-Jul-26 18:36:38

When younger all I needed went in the pockets of my jeans. £10 note folded small in little pocket. Fivers worth of change in pockets along with cigarettes & lighter as I smoked then. Small id wallet in back pocket! Never needed much as usually racing around on back of my then boyfriend's motorbike. Only thing missing now is the boyfriend & bike still in jeans & pockets stuffed with all I need!

Silvertwigs Thu 23-Jul-26 19:23:06

I’ve just been gifted a beautiful purse. But for years I’ve managed with just my phone.

I like going to car boot sales so I will use the new purse which incidentally matches my handbag. I usually have coins and notes in a sandwich bag 🤣

LinkyPinky Thu 23-Jul-26 21:25:11

Well we’ve been officially advised to stock up on food in case of cyber attacks, so it seems sensible to have some cash available for the same reason. Also, shopping electronically seems to generate a cascade of targeted advertising loosely related to your purchases. So yes, I carry a purse.

grannybuy Thu 23-Jul-26 23:24:21

I’m old. Wear a cross body bag. The bag is always on my front, and it does have my purse in it with credit card, bus pass and loyalty cards, and also some cash. My phone is in a different section from my purse. If I don’t want to wear a bag, I’ll wear a jacket with inside pockets which can hold my phone, car key, and a credit card.

Kartush Thu 23-Jul-26 23:48:58

Yes i have a purse of sorts but it is also the cover for my iphone

ROMILO Fri 24-Jul-26 11:18:21

Peaseblossom

I think people that never use cash are ignorant. Do they really want it to disappear and us only be able to use cards?! Probably the same people that will complain if we're forced to use ID cards.

I don't think that I am ignorant. I don't use cash because my mobility is poor and the nearest place to get cash is a walk too far. Next time stop and think before condemning everyone not using cash as ignorant.

Frenchgalinspain Fri 24-Jul-26 13:00:51

I use a "wallet" purse style
which contains:
COMPARTMENTS FOR:
€ NOTES IN MY CARE
COINS
CREDIT CARDS & IDENTITY CARDS AND SUBWAY and BUS PASS - SHAPED AS A CREDIT CARD

I also carry a shoulder bag for other needs.

Frenchgalinspain Fri 24-Jul-26 13:07:39

One of my dressy bags from Zara.

Musicgirl Fri 24-Jul-26 14:48:30

Well, I am also old, then, as is everyone I know of all ages. I like purses and I still use cash as well as cards. I like Radley or Ness purses best. My everyday purse is a cream Radley purse but this week alone l have used a black purse to match a black handbag for a funeral and, today, swapped to my red holiday purse. My husband always carries a wallet with him, as do our two sons. Both purses and wallets make really nice birthday or Christmas presents, too.

fofo Fri 24-Jul-26 16:02:10

I always have cash and we use it to pay plenty of people like the window cleaner, the farrier who shoes. my horse, the dog groomer, hairdresser etc.

I have cards for other purchases. I don’t use my phone to pay except for bank transfers.

I’m 70. Older and wiser.

Daddima Fri 24-Jul-26 18:18:51

Kartush

Yes i have a purse of sorts but it is also the cover for my iphone

Mine too, so it holds cards and £30. Coins go in the pocket of my handbag.

I’ve just seen an ad for a ring you can use to pay for things, as it will store your card details. The microchips will be just around the corner!

Daddima Fri 24-Jul-26 18:20:41

The payment ring.

petra Fri 24-Jul-26 20:27:36

Daddima

Kartush

Yes i have a purse of sorts but it is also the cover for my iphone

Mine too, so it holds cards and £30. Coins go in the pocket of my handbag.

I’ve just seen an ad for a ring you can use to pay for things, as it will store your card details. The microchips will be just around the corner!

They are not just round the corner they have been around for some time.
It is estimated that there are 50,000 - 100, 000 people using them.
Sweden is one of the leaders in this technology.

I don’t understand why people are fixated with cash disappearing. This will come but by the time it does, we, and possible our children will be pushing up daisies.

MawsRosie Fri 24-Jul-26 20:44:30

ROMILO

I have just read a news item that states if you have a purse or a wallet, carry store cards or have cash then you are definitely old!

Today's bright young things have no need for anything but their phones.

What happens when said phones are stolen or lost?

So do you have a purse or a wallet?

en orlost

Must I?