I will pay but asking for your opinion

Please find a new friend .
I have a friend who is exactly like this and I'm reeling from her latest antics .

That’s probably very wise. Put it down to experience.I hope that at least you enjoyed the trip, awful if you didn’t.
Just don’t take her up on any other offers!

This is why she has two homes, two cars
And probably no friends left.

Ziplok
When she says “not to worry as I have paid for other things” does she mean you’re not to worry because you’ve paid for other things and so she is paying for the tolls and petrol?

Sorry my mistake, she said , not to worry, you have paid for other things,

But why write to tell me the cost of the tolls and petrol, when she had to take it to another one of her homes, whether I was accompanying her or not is beyond me.
I paid the restaurant bills without showing her the prices and no I will not say anything, just putting it down to experience.

Yes, I will be wary in the future.

Oh that's not good, do you think you have spent more than what the split cost is?, if so I would reply telling her the breakdown of what you have spent, and ask her to contribute as this was her trip , in her interest etc, then give her a wide birth in the future.

She invited you along I think she has a cheek asking you now for money she's not a good friend

Sounds like my ex. His logic ran something like that: What's yours is mine and what's mine's my own. I got rid of him eventually. Dare I suggest you do the same with your alleged "friend"?
By the way, if she asked you to go along in order to help her with the practicalities of selling & buying vehicles, you could gently remind her that your time is worth something, surely?

I would not give her a penny. Cheeky mare !!

Cheeky beggar 🤷 no way would I be doing any "favours" for them again and it someone else asks you for anything similar again I would ask quite clearly how much it's going to cost you in advance. Did you do any of the driving over?

She’s got some brass neck.

Drop her asap !

When she says “not to worry as I have paid for other things” does she mean you’re not to worry because you’ve paid for other things and so she is paying for the tolls and petrol? It’s not very clear what she means, but if she is saying it’s ok, I wonder why she told you she’d split the bill? Very bizarre. I think I would be reluctant to travel with her again if she is expecting you to pay half the tolls and petrol when you seem to have paid the lions share of other costs.

You could offer an itemised bill from your point of view including your time and bill her for the balance?
But privately - bluddycheek!

I wouldn't go near her again! She wanted your company, she should pay for it

Yep, give this ‘friend’ a wide berth in future.

No way would I pay a penny !

Once bitten, twice shy.

That’s some friend !

Bizarre!