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Marks & Sparks Christmas Cards

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Lyndiloo Mon 17-Dec-18 02:57:01

I bought a packet of M & S Christmas cards last week. I was in a bit of a rush, and they were pretty, so I put them in my basket. It wasn't until I began writing in them that I suddenly noticed that nowhere on the card was the word 'Christmas'!

On the front of the card it says, 'Winter wishes', and on the inside, 'Enjoy the festive season'.

What's going on???

Okay, if you're not a Christian, these cards may be right up your street. But if you're not a Christian, why send a card at all?

I'm furious! (Not least because I'm now having to write inside every card, 'Happy Christmas!')

And, while I'm ranting, please, please everybody - stop putting an 'X' where 'Christ' should be! If you really do have to shorten 'Christmas' (lack of time? can't be bothered? disrespect?) how about 'C'mas'? But definitely NOT X!

Seakay Tue 18-Dec-18 14:49:47

so sorry that you were in too much of a hurry to examine your cards before spending money on them, and that you don't know the history of xmas, and that you want to send cards because it's Christian (?) but can't spare the time to write two words to your friends. Sorry, lost track of the other reasons you were angry and wanted sympathy.

Witzend Tue 18-Dec-18 14:50:41

Well, Greta, since I believe the first ever Christmas card was sent in the UK back in the 1800s, maybe it is a particularly British thing. It soon caught on, and many of us still like sending and receiving them. We don't much care what anybody else thinks.
If you don't like it, there's no law to say you have to do it. It was a Brit who dreamt up Scrooge, too! So all the Bah Humbug types are also carrying on a good old British invention.

Parsley3 Tue 18-Dec-18 14:53:45

Yes, M&S Christmas cards are very gloomy this year. I went in to buy some the other day and didn’t like any of the dull, bland designs. Didn’t get round to checking the message inside as I left the store feeling depressed that M&S have nothing I want to buy.

Greta Tue 18-Dec-18 15:28:51

Witzend, perhaps I did not make myself clear. Your comments are rather agressive; unnecessarily so. I never said I don't like sending Christmas cards. I always have done and will continue to do so. I think handing somebody a card when you live next door to them or see them on an almost daily basis is strange. When I worked as a secondary school teacher I received cards (handed to me) from colleagues and pupils. One Christmas I counted about 150 cards. I call that a waste of paper. Should we not all start thinking seriously about how we can protect the environment?

Greta Tue 18-Dec-18 17:05:20

Spelling: 'agressive' should of course be 'aggressive'. My mistake.

Harris27 Tue 18-Dec-18 18:57:29

Had to laugh at miss footloose very amusing!

annep Tue 18-Dec-18 20:41:14

Not worth fussing about tbh. Christians will still know what it means to them. But happy holidays instead of happy Christmas does sound silly.

Deedaa Tue 18-Dec-18 20:58:45

I seem to remember that back in the 60s there was a fashion for having Season's Greetings on cards because it looked more sophisticated than Happy Christmas.

henbane Tue 18-Dec-18 21:45:21

Not being a Christian, I always try and avoid overtly religious designs and prefer Season's Greetings - my parents did too so I think it's been around longer than the 60s!

Bridgeit Tue 18-Dec-18 22:03:02

The trees & trimmings may certainly not have anything to do with Jesus Christ, but for Christians it is ‘A’ day chosen to Celebrate his believed birth. Either way it is a extra or special day to make some time to think of others , to share with family if we are lucky enough to have people to celebrate with . Commercialisation in my opinion spoils what it is all about, but the fact that people do make an effort or go over the top at least shows that it is still about giving,caring & sharing, even if at times over the top & a bit misguided.

Lyndiloo Thu 20-Dec-18 14:19:16

I'm surprised that many posters here are annoyed at my use of the word 'furious'. I'm 'furious' when the car won't start. I'm 'furious' when I trip over the cat. At this very moment, I'm 'furious' because I've just dropped my hairbrush down the loo! (Perhaps 123coco is right ...? I must live a charmed life, and get up every morning ready to be offended! smile)
I know there are many horrendous things going on in the world which deserve our very real fury! And they get mine too!
Dontaskme Not sure that this explanation satisfies me ... but thank you for sharing.
A VERY HAPPY CHRISTMAS TO YOU ALL - AND MY BEST WISHES FOR A WONDERFUL 2019!

ReadyMeals Sat 22-Dec-18 10:15:02

Seasons greetings to you too Lyndiloo and have a very happy Winter Holiday :P