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Unwanted present

(61 Posts)
Madgran77 Wed 26-Dec-18 18:41:07

Thanks all!! Not just me who is a bit taken aback then!

ginny Wed 26-Dec-18 18:22:58

Extremely rude behaviour. Don’t bother to buy anything next year.

BlueBelle Wed 26-Dec-18 18:16:48

I would NEVER ever give a gift back I would accept it with thanks as it’s the thought not the object that is the important part
I had it happen to me once and I was mortified

hillwalker70 Wed 26-Dec-18 17:51:55

Well how about someone who returned all gifts given fully wrapped and on Christmas Eve, a poke in the eye from a friend if ever there was one, not me but a close friend, she is upset.

nigglynellie Wed 26-Dec-18 17:44:36

I just thank the giver very much, say how lovely/useful/attractive, (whatever), the gift is, and leave it at that. I might well re-give it elsewhere, but I would never ever be so rude as to say I didn't like a gift, obviously chosen with me in mind, however much I didn't like it!!

Grammaretto Wed 26-Dec-18 17:40:52

TBH I was quite pleased my DD said she really didn't want or need the gift I had bought. I hope to return it tomorrow and get my money back or exchange it for something else. If she can tell me this, I know I can trust her to tell me when I get it right.
You have to know someone well. I wouldn't reject a gift from an acquaintance.

phoenix Wed 26-Dec-18 17:38:01

Shh, don't tell, but Mr P bought me a smart phone, I have managed without one for about 2 years, and could have managed without one for longer................

I will struggle to use the minimum amount each month, as I use the tablet that he bought me for my birthday for everything except phone calls. tchblush

Grannyknot Wed 26-Dec-18 17:32:20

shock

A gift is to be received with grace and appreciation.

If I'm given something I don't like, I might re-gift it, but I'd never rudely return it to the giver, especially with a comment like that.

EllanVannin Wed 26-Dec-18 17:32:05

No way would I send it back. I'd accept with good grace as I always do.
There really are some ill-mannered people around.

mumofmadboys Wed 26-Dec-18 17:30:16

It is very rude but I would just let it pass and next time you see them just say sorry you weren't keen on my present.

Madgran77 Wed 26-Dec-18 17:28:19

If you were given a present that you didn't want would you send it back to the giver? That has happened to me, informing me that the person doesn't like it. Wondering what others think ...I'm feeling a bit taken aback, as I genuinely thought the item would be a treat for the person I gave it to.