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I love them honest I do but I’m glad they’ve gone.

(158 Posts)
TrendyNannie6 Fri 27-Dec-19 18:16:32

It is hard work isn’t it, but lovely to see them, I would find son and two children fine, but I wouldn’t relax with the two dogs under m6 feet so I can definately see where you are coming from, and I’m a dog lover,

Doodledog Fri 27-Dec-19 18:07:45

I think that mine forget that whilst this used to be their home, it is where their dad and I actually live, and they visit.

I love them both (and the dog - I could nearly have written your post!), but when they leave tomorrow, I can't pretend I won't breathe a sigh of relief to have some privacy and know where everything is for a while.

notanan2 Fri 27-Dec-19 18:05:41

Its bedtime that gets me, its like a game of poker grin do they want to go to bed early but wont say until you say, or do they want to stay up and chat?

Its so nice to just go to bed when youre tired without having to try to gauge your guests/hosts!

notanan2 Fri 27-Dec-19 18:01:34

They're probably also glad to be back home. Even if they had a lovely time. Its quite an exhausting time of year, especially when everyone is indoors so much.

At least in summer your guests can spill out into the garden or you can go for longer days out. Winter visits/visitors are more "intense"

Enjoy the peace, till next time!
And feel no guilt everyone feels that way at the end of visits/visiting

Sussexborn Fri 27-Dec-19 17:54:56

I can remember my Mum saying “It’s lovely to see them come and lovely to see them go”.

Perhaps we get rather set in our ways and need a jolt now and then just to liven things up.

We ate out which was pricey but worth every penny. Delicious meals, no serious food shopping, no veg peeling, food prep, cooking and best of all no washing up and clearing the decks. I wasn’t too sure when it was first discussed but went really well.

Nortsat46 Fri 27-Dec-19 17:51:27

I agree with PamGeo, you’ll soon feel better ... you’re over tired. I’m sure you gave them all a lovely Christmas.
Now ... feet up, your favourite music, a good book and a glass of something nice ...

PamGeo Fri 27-Dec-19 17:44:41

ahhhhh ... relax and breathe ... oh the sheer bliss of your own home. You'll soon feel better

morethan2 Fri 27-Dec-19 17:40:44

My son, their two children and two dogs have left after a lovely four days together and to be honest I’m glad to see the back of them. The dogs are the most stressful they get under my feet, follow me round all day. It’s probably because I smell of turkey and Christmas food. Boxing Day I had 14 to cater for.
After all the shopping, all the cooking not to mention the expense I wonder if it’s worth all the fuss. I can hardly believe I’m saying this, I can hardly believe I mean it. I wonder if I’ll regret thinking it in years to come when they don’t come. Is it just me or do any of you feel the same?