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simple really , let them know they are loved and that its ok to make a mistake, the person who never made a mistake never mades anything .

Just be open with them and let them know they can get all to you about anything

I took them to playgroups this encouraged them to play with children the same age, it boosts their confidence

Give them positive attention as much as possible but also discipline them when they misbehave. If you praise them enough their confidence will go through the roof?!

It all starts with praise i think, and even if they have't got something quite right, found something within that task they did to praise them for first and then say but maybe we could change (whatever it is) this next time.so they always hear the positive and then dont mine the change part. It builds their confidence greatly.

Always reinforce when they do something well or right and don't use negative language around them.

Don't complicate things - don't talk down to children (try to lower yourself if needs be to keep eye contact during dicussions) - try to praise a lot more than you criticise, and if you do need to, try to use constructive criticism and give them the chance to speak whilst you listen - talking 'at' them rather than 'with' them will only bring negativity. I also think it's important to make yourself available so that the children know they can approach you, ask questions, put their point of view forward etc. Show trust and respect and chances are you will have respoectful and trustworthy children

I'm very aware when my children need extra attention, especially in areas they aren't as confident. I find praising them, and rewarding them is a real confidence boost.

Never discourage them and even when they are struggling and its easier to do things yourself eg dressing give them encouragemtn and let them do at own pace. Tell them everyday how much you love them and encourage them to express their feelings

Just tell them how great there are, how precious they are. Cheer for every little achievement! And just love them and squizee every night!

Lots of praise and making time to listen

Make them feel safe, don't pander to them and show them how to make friends. Mostly they need love

Explain that you love them that you will always be here to listen and not criticise. Children need love warmth and understanding give them your presence not 'presents' use laughter and humour and a spoon ful of happiness to make them laugh and make their day!

Let them learn from mistakes and support the learning! It's ok to make them- everybody does! It's what you do with it :-)

Lots of encouragement and a nice stable homelife... I think this is what is causing lots of the problems these days!

Listen to children, don't talk down to them and make sure they know their opinion is valued. I think security and stability are essential in making children feel confident, as well as encouragement and reassurance that so long as they do their best then you can ask for nothing more.

Listen to and speak to them as mini adults

The first step to a confident child is a confident parent. Build up your own confidence and your child will follow suit

always be encouraging, never belittle their dreams

Always have time to listen - then don't pass judgement.

No question is wrong and you should never allow your children to feel embarrassed to speak to you. If a child comes to you with an age-inappropriate question try to answer it to the best of your ability - even if it's not fully answering it. This will prevent them from looking elsewhere such as the internet. Never let arguments fester - kids should always know you love them even when they are in trouble. Actually, really strong parenting boundaries encourage this. My daughter is now 12 and she understands that the boundaries I put in place were for her own good. Finally, always be parent first, friend very much second. As a parent you are in such a priviliged position that you should be the first person your children come to when they need something.

Love them for who they are, listen to what they are not saying as much as to what they are.

Make sure that what you give them to do is achievable
Don't say they are naughty but what they did was
Love, praise and encouragement

Don't criticise them in front of others. It can lead to insecurities later on, especially in sensitive children. It's amazing how many parents talk negatively about their children right in front of them.

Talk to them about anything and everything. Listen to what they have to say. Answer their questions. Reassure them.