My parents bought a house with my mum's parents when I was two years old, so although they had their own sitting room and kitchen, as an only child until the age of 10, they were an important part of my life.
Nanny was everything a child could long for in a grandmother. I knew that she loved me dearly and she played alongside me in a way that many adults would find it hard to do. Never did she appear bored or distracted or end the activity until it came to its natural end.
During the summer, we spent hours making picnics in the garden for the little pottery gnomes she had bought me for my own little garden - which she had helped me design, create and maintain. We constructed gnome furniture out of acorns, pine cones, twigs and other natural things and used leaves for plates with fresh berries to eat and water from the water butt in acorn cups. This was accompanied by what seemed like hours of role play, each little gnome having his/her own name and personality.
When the colder weather arrived, our favourite activity was playing shops. The shop was my dolls' ironing board and nanny helped me make little packets of food out of old cartons, carefully copying the designs on real products from her pantry. Fresh produce was then modeled out of Plasticine. But my joy of joys were the little brown paper packets she helped me to fold and construct which we then filled with real food - rice, flour, sago, currants, tea etc - and she found a little plastic scoop which I could use to weigh and fill twisted paper cones which we also constructed. We used real coins in my toy cash register and all my dolls and toys would line up ready to make their purchases.
Nanny died when I was eight years old and I was devastated. The house seemed sad and cold without her and no-one else could enter my childhood world in the way that she did. I missed her dreadfully and still wear the 1920s arm band that she always wore. it is some comfort to me that I seem to have inherited some of her attributes and resemble her physical and only hope that in some small way I can be as special to my little granddaughters as she was to me.