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Argument! But we talk it through and most of the times agree to disagree

I wish he would! I learned to play Bridge a couple of years ago, and would love him to learn so that he could partner me.
On the other hand - after many years of him nagging me, I finally took up golf so that we could play together. But it obviously doesn't work both ways!

Considering we have been married 31 years in June.. there are no things such as mine or his... we share each and everyday together and he does the cooking whilst I do the ironing.. we share good and bad.. a true partnership...… My world in fact

I really don't mind sharing things with my husband

I do not mind ,we like to have same interests but still like to have our own as well. It is what one of the things that makes a long and lasting marriage.

I usually walk away and let him get on with it,

I am happy for him to do it and like to see if he garners the same enjoyment as me. Quite often he sees things from a different angle and can add another level of enjoyment to it.

We tend to have our own “stuff” and tend to let each other get on with it. The only time I feel he is interfering is when he comes up behind me in the kitchen and puts his arms around me...I do tell him off sometimes, but mainly I actually love the fact that even after 2 decades of marriage we are still tactile and genuinely enjoy being together!

WE rub along just fine.

I always value his input -helpful to have two heads to solve problems

He normally doesn't but if he does I don't mind.

I’m divorced. One of the reasons we split up was my ex interfering in the interests that I wanted to enjoy as a person in my own right and not part of a couple. I resented his attempt to get involved as it wasn’t coming from a good place but rather through a need to control and keep tabs on what I was doing.

In theory it should be lovely to do things together but it can get a bit competitive! I'm keeping him away from book group!

he'll probaby get bored so Ill let him join in.

I like it when we can enjoy something together!

Would be as rare an occurrence as hens teeth.

He keeps well away and only comes near when I shout “help” which is more often than not.

He took over the supermarket shop after my hysterectomy 10 years ago and still does it weekly. I usually have to go again another day to get the things he didn't! Went together once - once only as he goes up and down every single row - even ones we never buy from! Or disappears and then its a struggle to meet up again.

We just share

I don’t have a partner ☹️ Does that mean I can’t take part in the completion

Would depend on what It is and how precious it is to me or if It is something I would gladly share

I haven’t had a partner for many years since my divorce so don’t have that problem! Am very happy on my own doing my own thing and making my own decisions.

My partner and I very often do things together I usually ask his opinion on things as he has a sharp eye and can spot things I can't. Plus I love being with him after 40 years of marriage not bad is it.

I stand back however the anxiety i feel is off the scale. I secretly go back and redo jobs especially if he offers to clean the bathroom. I have pointed out the shower screen and skirting boards need cleaned but he never does!!

I get very very mad