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Do you ever feel this will never be over?

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Greymar Fri 10-Apr-20 19:34:35

I am trying to be pleasant, enjoy the garden, chat to my husband and so on. Sometimes I feel I am hanging by a thread.
Just watching Rick Stein in France and I have the strngest sensation that this crisis will never end.

Labaik Sat 11-Apr-20 22:22:42

It's a bit like waiting for a medical test result but without having had a test...

Flakesdayout Sat 11-Apr-20 22:15:35

Labaik - I too have had thoughts like you. Take my chance with the virus but as I am high risk I fear I would not survive. I miss seeing my sons, although I talk to them on the phone and I miss just being able to pop out to the shops. I do not like having to stay at home and not go outside for a walk. I miss meeting up with my friends. I do not like having to plan my grocery shopping for a delivery and if I forget something its a real pain. I actually miss Aldi (I know!!!) Im hoping this will be over soon, but what is the Exit strategy. I fear I may be shielded for a year .

justme2 Sat 11-Apr-20 22:06:59

It will end but when the dust settles, there will be a new social normal.

Marmight Sat 11-Apr-20 22:05:26

When you read posts like Fran’s it puts things into some form of perspective and I feel bad for feeling bad. I start the day feeling fairly chipper and thanks to the glorious weather I am busy in the garden but as the day draws on I start spiralling downwards. I just want my DH back and to be able to go through this together which is quite ridiculous as he’s been dead for 8 years. I’ve never quite come to terms with being on my own, I hate it, but being confined, alone , 24/7 is not easy and there are thousands of us doing it and having to just get on with it. The thought of another 12 weeks and maybe another 12 is just too awful but so is the alternative ....

Flygirl Sat 11-Apr-20 22:04:14

I do think there is much more to this than meets the eye. Maybe this will be the first of many of these "viruses" that will crop up unexpectedly and completely change our way of life. This could be a brand new way of controlling or manipulating the way we do things when we are so fearful of any outcomes. I hope I'm wrong.

Marmight Sat 11-Apr-20 21:51:23

So very, very sorry Fran. I can’t begin to imagine what you and your family are going through.

Ellylanes1 Sat 11-Apr-20 21:45:46

Fran t, heartbreaking, sending a virtual hug.

Cherrytree59 Sat 11-Apr-20 21:40:14

FranT my sincerest condolences to you and your grandchildren.flowers

Heart breaking times thanks

Nana3 Sat 11-Apr-20 21:36:17

FranT thinking of you flowers

Maybelater2020 Sat 11-Apr-20 21:35:11

*FranT So sorry for your loss. flowers

Stainedglass Sat 11-Apr-20 21:29:24

My son in law was watching a programme about when that Russian guy got poisoned in Winchester and it all had to be cordoned off, everyone was in protective gear and he said, "oh, at last there's a programme on TV I can relate to!" i know how he feels smile

Madgran77 Sat 11-Apr-20 21:28:24

FranT flowers

Whitewavemark2 Sat 11-Apr-20 21:24:45

FranT my heart goes out to you and your family.

Madgran77 Sat 11-Apr-20 21:21:47

I'm a bit up and down too! Was listening to Ralph Mctell singing Streets of London at the end of Celebrity Countless today and felt all weepy ….Hmmm!

Grandmafrench Sat 11-Apr-20 21:19:19

Bless you FranT - and your family. Wishing you strength and courage and sending you all love.

SueDonim Sat 11-Apr-20 21:17:20

FranT, that’s every mother’s nightmare - I am so, so sorry, it’s horrendous. sad flowers

Emilymaria Sat 11-Apr-20 21:09:27

Here to listen - whatever you need to say. Do PM.

instagran Sat 11-Apr-20 21:08:32

Aepgirl ; impossible I know but we share the same nightmare thought. Then it dawns
on me that life has become
a nightmare, but from which we must surely soon awaken.

instagran Sat 11-Apr-20 21:00:52

Fran t + if only I had the words. I am so sorry for what you must be going through. ?

Aepgirl Sat 11-Apr-20 20:43:47

When I woke up this morning I thought I’d had a nightmare that I’d woken up from. Then I realised it is all real.

sluttygran Sat 11-Apr-20 20:19:41

I'm so very sorry for those who have lost friends and loved ones.
I dont expect I'm alone in feeling guilty that I'm praying I won't join the ranks of the dead or bereaved. This is truly a dystopian nightmare for us all.
Nevertheless, the nature of pandemics is that they do end, even without any mitigating science or medication, and we do have some brilliant minds concentrating their all on finding drugs and vaccines to shorten this horrible experience.
Stay safe and take care of yourselves!

4allweknow Sat 11-Apr-20 20:18:47

Of course it will end. We are so geared up nowadays to everything happening/ being fixed quickly. We are dealing with nature albeit to us a gone wrong element of nature. Like other aspects of nature we have to adapt, learn to live with or control. Patience is what we need.

Eglantine21 Sat 11-Apr-20 20:08:13

I’m so sorry. ?

GagaJo Sat 11-Apr-20 20:07:00

FranT, I have no words. My heart goes out to you.

merlotgran Sat 11-Apr-20 20:04:47

That's so awful, FranT My sincere condolences.