Happy Birthday Artysue! I hope you enjoyed lunch. 
Your post really struck a cord with me, I could have written it myself!
As a child my Mum always shooed me out of our very tiny kitchen, I was just in her way and she didn't want the mess I might make. When I got to secondary school and cookery was on the curriculum everything I made and took home went straight in the bin. Mum didn't want food I had been 'playing with'. When I met my husband Mum told him I couldn't cook and he could do better than me! She didn't want me to get married. He bought me a cook book for an engagement present, I didn't really mind, I was probably going to need it.
Forty years later I have raised (and fed) three sons, they never went hungry, never had food poisoning and grew into strapping men. So I must have muddled through the daily meals somehow. But cooking and baking still has no interest for me. DH does the cooking every day (he's good at it) and I have often said if I was on my own I'd live on raw foods and sandwiches! I do quite envy people who make nice pastry, I gave up trying years ago.
Like you I am an 'arty' type. I paint, sew and do a whole host of crafty things, and as far as I'm concerned they definitely take precedence over cooking - or any other household tasks for that matter! And I make no apology for that.
I'm quite enjoying Lockdown because I can pursue my crafts as much as I want without the interruptions of children/grandchildren/friends/neighbours etc; I can ignore the dusty surfaces and dirty floors because no one except us will see them, and I don't have to do boring food shopping!
Well done Artysue for persevering with your cooking and baking I hope you continue to enjoy it.