Don't know why but this afternoon and evening I have been feeling incredibly down and depressed. Does anyone else feel like this and what do they do about it? I KNOW I am luckier than many. I have a DH, a nice home, a DD and DGC I see a few days a week when they go for a walk. (We stand by front door as they stand at bottom of drive). I am even beginning to learn how to ignore the fact that my DS has developed political leanings somewhere to the far left of Karl Marx. But today I have that dreadful feeling of "is this it? Is this as good as it will ever get?". I am furloughed from my much enjoyed part time job. DH actually finished work since lockdown started and I am due to retire in a few months. Is my future no more than getting up, cooking, online shopping, a walk to see the ducks in the park and watching the hedgehogs all night? That's all there is? I am fed up listening to students and young adults whinging about how their lives are ruined and how they are scared for their future. At least they have a future! Imagine their conversations 20,30, 40 years from now "do you remember that year when everything closed? When we couldn't even go to the pub or on holiday? Can't remember exactly what year it was but it was ages ago. I remember we .locked granny up and wouldn't let her out in case she got ill. It was a right laugh, we used to zoom her (do you remember that?) But she never could get it quite right. Don't know why we bothered really, she died the next year of old age and dementia. Still, at least she didn't get the virus. What did they call it?" It's ok for them. We don't have 40, 30 or even 20 years in which to look back on this. I know (hope) tomorrow I will feel better. I will apologise to DH for being miserable as sin tonight and for snapping at everything he said and for everything he hasn't done. But tonight I could just cry and cry and cry. Sorry. And thank you for being my shoulder.
I've got another 'keen'... Ouch!