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New Gransnet Movement – "Old Pride"

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Bags Fri 26-Apr-13 09:27:02

Zengran and I are starting a Proud to be Old club for gransnetters. We are sick of the 'culture' of youth worship in our society and people trying to disguise their age all the time (always downwards once they're out of their twenties).

Join here!

Old Pride Rocks!

sunshine

Elegran Fri 26-Apr-13 13:53:52

He should be one of our first recruits!

Bags Fri 26-Apr-13 14:31:13

Why would having the support of gay people be a problem, jings?

But yes, OldiePride doesn't work.

Sel Fri 26-Apr-13 14:36:09

'Old Pride' - sounds like a brand of beer smile

annodomini Fri 26-Apr-13 14:57:35

Reminds me of Mother's Pride bread. Remember - 'I'm the mother in Mother's Pride' adverts?

Elegran Fri 26-Apr-13 15:00:09

We must be the grannies who were out of sight in those adverts.

If you are looking for comparisons, some might say that Gay Pride could be likened to Gape Wide.

Ana Fri 26-Apr-13 15:08:46

shock! Not quite sure how to take that, Elegran...grin

Elegran Fri 26-Apr-13 15:12:00

Not meant any particular way - just an example of how someone hard of hearing might interpret it.

Sel Fri 26-Apr-13 15:15:33

Ana shock I resisted.

Ana Fri 26-Apr-13 15:16:26

Phew, glad it's not just me....wink

FlicketyB Fri 26-Apr-13 15:27:37

See this link, the fight back has begun.
www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-22013245

The US photographer who took the photos published a book, Advanced Style last year, which I bought and I have since been interleaving it with pictures I see in newspapers and magazines of older ladies with style, Edna O'Brien at 80 with flame red hair. About two months ago Princess Lilian of Sweden died at about 97. There were pictures in the papers of her in her early 90s, immaculately coiffed and made up with a suit a women 50 years her junior could have worn.

What I would really like to do is ban the use of the term granny or grannies as a term for describing older women. The BBC is particularly bad, you know the sort of thing 'Don't go there it is fully of grannies drinking tea' or some such comment.

soop Fri 26-Apr-13 15:37:03

FlicketyB The lovely lady wearing the yellow dress, made me smile

merlotgran Fri 26-Apr-13 15:54:37

Sel,The Old Peculiars?? grin

Sel Fri 26-Apr-13 16:31:14

merlot grin

Nelliemoser Fri 26-Apr-13 16:46:28

gracesmum You referred earlier in the thread about "ageist jokes", I see where you are coming from but as most of us are older, we are the ones that should be setting the ageist joke agenda.

There was a whole american TV program ?called Old Jews telling jokes (often Jewish jokes.)
There was also a radio and later a TV sketch show ?Goodness Gracious me"? with a lot of top Asian actors and comedians generally joking without any malice about how other Indian subcontinent immigrants behave in the UK. We need an older persons version of the same.

Perhaps until older people feel happy doing these jokes we will not be mainstream.

"I wanted to be a stand up comedian but my back gives out before I can get to the end of the joke." grin

j08 Fri 26-Apr-13 18:26:37

And where exactly did I say that having the support of old gay people would be a problem Bags!??? angry

absent Fri 26-Apr-13 19:22:25

Ladies, as a beer drinker, can I point out to you that Old Peculiar is a trademark and the other bit that reminds you of beer is London Pride (a Fuller's beer).

I have been conducting a one-woman campaign for a long time to reclaim the word old. I don't do Facebook or Twitter so would not be part of this plan, but I wish you well.

gracesmum Fri 26-Apr-13 19:45:14

I like the name Advanced Style - hmm I could really go along with that.
As for the jokes, well just as Jews tell the best Jewish jokes, and the Irish tlell the best Irish jokes, I suppose it is up to us, but what I
deplore is the self-deprecating nature of many of them. Try substituting Jewish/Irish/Gay in an ageist joke and see whether you think it is still acceptable.

Bags Fri 26-Apr-13 20:07:46

You didn't jings, but I thought it was implied, else why mention it at all? As here: "You are sure you won't be mistaken for a group of old gay people?"

Bags Fri 26-Apr-13 20:08:24

You see, it wouldn't matter if we were is what I'm saying or, in short, so what?

Bags Fri 26-Apr-13 20:10:54

Friend and I in a pub were once asked if we were lesbians. I was about to answer no when my friend said: Just say yes; it'll shut him up. It did. That was "bladdy hell Jimmy" – posh colonial accent from his family estate in Malaysia (wh he still called Malaya!) in a village pub in W Scotland.

annodomini Fri 26-Apr-13 20:11:10

What is wrong with me? Having got over Mother's Pride, I now find that Old Pride reminds me of Old Spice. hmm

Bags Fri 26-Apr-13 20:14:24

Re jokes, as far as I'm concerned a joke is a joke is a joke. If its bad taste is for a purpose – and most humour is to get a point across, often a tabooed one – then good for bad taste.

Elegran Fri 26-Apr-13 20:15:22

Can't call ourselves that. It has a horrible smell. We don't.

nanaej Fri 26-Apr-13 20:18:33

Hi, count me in please! Though I do colour my hair and use some make up..but tbh did that when I was young too!

Embrace Age

Bloody, Old and Resolute

Better with Age

Maturing Nicely /Well/ Naturally

Old, bold and beautiful

Good Age

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Bags Fri 26-Apr-13 20:24:04

I like Embrace Age.

DH suggested The Elders. He was thinking of village elders.