Ladies be thankful you still have husband's to worry about. I was widowed at 45 my husband was 47. I would give anything to nag him about his weight. I am 62 now. No one can make a person lose weight you have to decide for yourself. I speak from experience. It has taken me 3 years to lose over 7st. I was a size 32 now a 16. Still want to lose a stone. No I wouldn't be slim but want to get to 11st.
What I have learnt lossing weight is a marathon not a sprint. I am happy if I lose quarter pound a week. Now a days it is staying the same but will loss the rest eventually.
If your husband's decide they do want you to help them lose weight diet plus exercise is the best way. If you want ideas of diets that works read the pear thread. I count calories. My brother is online with WW .
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