This is a problem for all parents. A lot of parents send their children to religious schools because they want them in that environment. Some parents send their children to religious schools or other private schools (which are usually much more expensive in the USA), because the nearest state school is not a good one, or even a safe one. If you all haven't heard of chairs being thrown, lucky you. The inmates have taken over the asylum in many of our public schools here. That's partially because their parents have not raised them well, don't care about their progress, don't come to student-teacher meetings, etc., or flat out set a bad example themselves. More and more people have come to expect that their children be provided with school supplies from charitable organizations and free meals. As a matter of fact, in our country, many public schools stay open all summer long to provide food for children because they don't think they will get food at home. Which came first, the chicken or the egg? I would say when small, private attempts are made to help a child or a family, that is a good thing. When it becomes public policy to just sign everybody up for free this and free that, then you are training people to expect that. Teachers in this country spend a good deal of money that they earn providing things for the classroom that should be paid for by the school. Frankly, I think there's too much of candy cane week and second set of pictures and campaign for the environment, etc. School needs to go back to the basics, and stop trying to give every experience in the world to every child in the classroom. It's not possible, and all it winds up doing is diluting the experience and knowledge that the student is supposed to be getting. Even my granddaughter, who went to private Catholic School, had to participate in learning a section of Braille. I told the teacher I thought that was ridiculous. There's a time and a place for that further on in education, but when you have a child who is struggling to learn to read in the first grade, that's where the emphasis should be. Add to that all the gender and pronoun nonsense and overtly political agenda that a lot of our public schools have, and it's no wonder people flee to the closest private school they can afford.